Adoptar la mentalidad del águila

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Hello everyone and welcome to ideas for
a better life. I am Eugenio fencer

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Ruiz, reader, hard- working
and lover of personal development. Today I

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want to talk to you about how
we can adopt the mentality of the eagle

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so that we can overcome criticism and
fly towards success in our lives. But

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now we' re going to talk
about how to adopt the eagle mentality.

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The ravens are the only animals who
dare to challenge the eagle, but when

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this happens, the eagle doesn'
t mute It just flies so high that

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the ravens can' t attack it? It just flies so high that crows

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can only behold it? From below
with admiration, the ravens know that if

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they ventured to lift the flight further, if they ventured to follow the eagle,

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they would die because the ravens are
not made to reach the height that

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the eagles reach. And the eagles
know this advantage that nature has given them.

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Eagles do not waste their time or
energy in responding to the provocations of

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crows. They are aware of their
superiority in that field. They are aware

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that they are capable of flying at
a height that is unattainable to crows.

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And that' s how we should
all act with the a. The people

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who criticize us do not complicate your
life by giving unnecessary explanations. Those who

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really are your friends don' t
need them. Those who are truly your

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enemies will not accept them. So
you' d better save yourself the explanations.

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Don' t waste your time.
Don' t waste your energy in

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responding to those who criticize you or
try to offend you think of them as

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the eagle thinks about crows. They' re on a different plane, they

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' re on a level that you' re not interested in descending to.

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And when you react to criticism like
that, they just make you grow and

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make you rise more exactly the way
it happens to the eagle. And this

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example is not limited to criticism alone. Embrace everything that brings you life,

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but put any resistance when you come
to understand that actually. Everything that happens,

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everything that happens is exactly as it
should be. Even those things that

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seem negative to us at first,
then you reach a degree of personal evolution

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in which you stop reacting to reality
on a superficial level. In fact,

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the only fight we should fight is
the struggle against our own resistance to accept

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reality, simply because when you mentally
confront something, you are giving it power

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over you. Therefore, throughout history, all the wise, of all cultures

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and of all religions have agreed on
one council. Don' t resist,

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don' t fight life, don' t react. Relax to accept and

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appreciate, because every obstacle is an
opportunity that gives you life to lift yourself

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up a little bit more every day. Every day, life will present you

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with situations that you will only be
able to address in two ways, reacting

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or creating. Don' t object, don' t react. Use all

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that energy to create. When you
react to something that happens to you,

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you disconnect from the present, disconnect
from your true essence and then respond from

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past experiences or from limiting beliefs.
But when you choose to create as an

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answer to what happens, you dive
fully into the here and now. You

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don' t allow the past to
dictate. Your reaction. You create from

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the essence of who you want to
be. And that is precisely the great

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change that personal development seeks, that
this is what many people do not understand,

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personal development. It is precisely this
about creating from the essence of who

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you want to be, and you
will tell me how I do it,

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because this sounds very good, but
on a practical level, how we can

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do it. And I' m
telling you, first of all, you

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have to prioritize. The system may
tell us that prioritizing oneself is being selfish,

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but the reality is that you won' t be able to really care

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for others if you don' t
take care of yourself. First betray yourself

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so as not to disappoint others is, in fact, the greatest betrayal that

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you can become the greatest if you
just follow the rules imposed by others.

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You' re not growing up,
you' re obeying. So stay true

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to your purpose always no matter what. You keep going forward doing what you

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have to do every day and for
this you' re going to have to

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train, obviously, but really training
and training is much more than putting knowledge

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into your head. If training was
the same as getting good grades at school

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or high school or college, everyone
who gets good grades would have great results

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in life. And that' s
not like that. I need to tell

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you. You already know that'
s not the case. To form is

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to incorporate knowledge, yes, but
also to apply it, to put it

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into practice, to put it in
motion. And that' s what the

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education system doesn' t do today, most cases, at least, and

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that' s what' s leaving
it off the hook, what' s

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leaving the education system out of reality. It should not only offer knowledge but

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should also apply it or say how
to apply it. In the real world

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teach the whole process, not just
the beginning, because knowledge is lost,

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but wisdom is not forgotten. Article
forty- three of the law of I

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do not know what, but you
do not forget how to conduct truth,

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because you have learned to apply that
knowledge, has become wisdom. Be like

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the eagle in front of the criticisms
of the other crows. We have been

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taught that if someone leads you to
the contrary, it is because you have

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done something wrong and that leads us
to behave, like everyone else, simply

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to prevent someone from criticizing us.
And I' ll tell you one thing.

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If no one criticizes, what you
do is you' re doing something

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wrong. If you' re criticized
by people who are where you don'

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t want to be, it'
s just that you' re doing something

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right. What' s important is
what people think that' s where you

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want to get to. I was
telling you the other day. Everything else

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is noise and you' d do
very well to ignore that noise. Receiving

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criticism is a sign that you are
being authentic, that you are acting according

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to your truth, and if someone
feels bad about it, they must learn

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to manage it. You have to
keep your eye off someone' s opinion.

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It' s not disrespect, it' s just betting on your own

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way. Of course, respect the
opinion of those who criticize you always,

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but just don' t follow them
thank them and don' t go in

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arguing. Instead, channel that energy
into the things you have really come to

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do to this world toward your purpose, even in the most extreme cases.

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If you' re being criticized a
lot every day, think about whether you

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might want to find a new environment
at the end of what you want to

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achieve. This happens a lot to
people who enter a path of personal development.

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Many of these people. It'
s happened to me It happens to

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a lot of people They' re
criticized for their environment. It is as

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if as personal development enters the world, they are accused of doing something wrong.

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It is as if they were punished
in some way and then they tell

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them that they have changed, that
before they were not so, that you

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are no longer interested in the same
things, that you no longer eat or

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no longer drink as before, that
you no longer care about the same thing

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that interested you, that you no
longer have the same political ideas that you

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no longer vote for the same parties, of course not. Of course,

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when I started this relationship with you
years ago, it was one way and

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now I' m another. But
it' s normal, and it'

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s not just normal, it'
s good. I would not like my

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current life to be led by my
20- year- old self, nor

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by my 30- year- old
self. I' m forty now.

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And that' s precisely what all
those people who refuse to change or blame

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you for changing are doing. Of
course I' m changing and I'

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m changing more. In fact,
I' m going to change more.

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I hope to keep changing, because
that will mean I' m alive.

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For example. I don' t
see any sense in having to forgive?

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I don' t see any sense
in having to keep working on the same

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thing you decided to work 15 or
20 years ago. If you don'

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t feel like it anymore, I
don' t see any sense in the

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decisions you made on the basis of
a different infar than you have today,

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becoming a kind of jail you can' t get out of and, besides,

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when you try to get out of
that jail, others will be offending

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you with behavior change is neither good
nor bad. If you' re comfortable,

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don' t change, but if
you' re not, change without

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any problems. What' s more, seek change, seek personal development to

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change. The ones who criticize you
then are the crows and they do it

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because when you change, you become
an uncomfortable reminder to them that you can

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get better And that bothers them and
that' s why they' re going

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to shave you and you have to
learn to live with it. Become that

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eagle that doesn' t listen to
crows, because when you' re brave

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enough to build a real life,
there' s going to be a lot

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of people who won' t,
they' ll forgive you and you have

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to know how to deal with it. Since the creation of the human being,

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in reality, this has always been
a war between good and evil.

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Today, good is represented by people
who live in line with what they are

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without fear of criticism, those who
work from love, those who are not

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ashamed of anything. The swords we
have today for that struggle are the words,

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they are the thoughts and the enemy
that is facing is the fear.

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Fear a fear that has its own
army and the vanguard of that army you

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know that the mass media are going
to politicians whose only goal is to put

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fear in, it' s going
to be lying to you, it'

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s going to be cheating to get
you out of your real way. I

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invite you not to watch TV.
Well, you can do whatever you want.

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Don' t watch TV get on
a low- informative diet why.

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Because when you don' t put
noise in your head, then you'

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re going to be able to listen
to your conscience and it' s going

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to be easier for you to do
it in line with what that consciousness dictates

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to you, not with what the
vanguard of the army of fear tells you.

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Go your way bravely, like that
eagle that ignores the unpleasant squawking of

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very much, as always and until
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