158. Algo que nos haya pasado con NUESTRAS MADRES (Ft. Nuestras Madres & Hermanas)

0:03 Tell the podcast? Welcome, welcome to another episode. The podcast is how you' re doing Gian Carlos, we' re fine, you' re nervous at all. I love seeing you so nervous. So much we followed the month of the Mothers and we could not let the month of May pass without bringing our dear mothers back to that occasion. They' re coming with our sisters. One of your brothers would be missing, but unfortunately, we don' t have the right space and the truth doesn' t want to invite us at all. Verb is my brother too, but we know he ' s not so right in the microphone. Maybe it' s time to be imprisoned right now surprised, but ours are then with us, our mothers, Jesse and Grace, and our Carla and Monica sisters. Wo welcome to your house. Mamis, Doña Greis, were three years old who didn' t come like this, it' s three years because you were here when there were no cameras. You didn' t want to invite us, uh, and you wanted to invite him no. Hey, look, even I told him to jancarlo, why you didn' t want to. He invites Jesse and he tells me that you live telling Giancarlo. That' s not exactly the way things are, and it says a lot of memories built up.

1:22 We found out, it' s true, that you don' t give Jess, but what memories you built. Let' s see express yourself things that didn' t really happen to you. They passed somewhere else and I have to make it controversial can go ahead. The mike was there. That' s right. Not then, too, memories they told you at some point are not yours. You make it yours That' s what I know I don' t have a built memory. I don' t understand, because you say that. There are things that happened in the house. Maybe I' m a broken one that never breaks everyone. I want, for example, what they gave him a table, not the table when I was four. Mame doesn' t remember, but I have that memory very alive in the bohio two that we lived. I dropped a table at Christmas dinner because I lay down more. I think he passed me a birthday cake on Mom' s terrace, on Marillene' s birthday. There' s that I dropped Mari and I' ll leave it there you don' t me that day appeared. I am already explain to me you are a thief of local experiences. I mean, the story that he did, that he was like with the neighbors, that' s the story that you say he was in a neighborhood thing, a Christmas dinner, he wasn' t in the bathroom. But I don' t remember. The year I did it I saw it or it stayed two tables. My love is cheap for the sena. I left for the house and I remember we had to leave the building. Yeah, all the kids the cando, but not really that no, Mommy, that really happened and they went to get me out and I didn' t want to get out of the vergenho and you' re a dream and I' m talking nonsense, but well, yeah, good pussy.

2:46 Really, then Ima, because you didn' t want to extract your mother. It wasn' t that I didn' t want to bring him in. Hey, what I never brought it was me, because you don ' t come soon for a moment and I said I' ll dove the perfect take cha when I give it you know that that went to me. So, right, that was it. That was clearly great science. We ' re not going to therapy here, or we or they are asking these questions. Or that' s therapy. Either you' re going one that ' s worth it all clearly or you' re going to say clearly is not a joke, but it' s going to put this name. This is nothing imposed by anything, I don' t mean, people are going to know that this isn' t a script, uh, it' s exactly part of that it' s worth disassembly images, but of course, how do you imagine going state I mean, I love that I already say show pictures like you' re going to crib me right now. No, or you' ve riddled me with many years and the whole world with the people, the streets with the most trauma. One. Yeah, so, in today' s episode we' re going to play, let' s talk unfiltered our dear chaula rides, this is the mother edition. Then it doesn' t exist. That' s questions and we' re going to develop issues more focused on mothers and leave and I filter the questions. Ah yes, yes, because there were questions that we didn' t want, whether mothers or not to see each other, expose us and get one out.

4:10 You know, Mommy, I, maybe this one thing you don' t want them to cry. So, then, since well, let' s see the devil that ono i is worth the no sit and nine all one thing matures. Then nothing. Let' s play, let' s talk without a filter. Monica' s quiet. Hey, that' s because you' re late,' cause you' re mother Monica who doesn ' t know. Monica is the mother of a pigeon who denied her completely. Yes, if it could biologically be that the children were born of a sun, of a sperm was the case of Music, yes, that was Juan Lito to Dad totally denied me. Monica tells of that experience, good and unforgettable. Unforgettable We know that the one who saw the revs was a very wanted child. He was very wanted, that' s all he didn ' t plan. It didn' t go like that even me You know that if it' s going to look like me, it doesn' t look like me, but nothing. I was very happy of a child in many who come with great health, very very nice and nothing I am very happy. How cute Monica was born seemed to you yes, but it lasted a week and then took to hyma disappeared waves that two days, exactly two days are Tena García, Morson are a little weak, Sílvia, Mikels told me friend, you have co good Genk yes, i e you hit with intensive treatment, because Mira didn' t know that. We' re already learning. Mine are very dominant. So, well, yeah, the two of us, but that' s why, because the s are very much alike. Yeah, I' m Lus Gian Carlos with my kids who run.

5:42 So, well, what dominant mountains completely, but I drink is Garcy, Beboy Garcia, but go Map also don' t know Medina, ah, but Medine on his exact side. I' m on the side I ' ll tell you, yes, you Monica and my brother who go you both say yes they look rock more like irma patric and Manuel do to see what Manuel a well, liño, ah, well, the son can not look. They went to bring something to the house once. Say that for Manuel garcía and I told him no more, my dad doesn' t see here. Madam I returned the request to you was the truth that was bad to the same thing as when Michael called us the first with Michael. Please, you' re not wrong His name is Michelangelo, but you declare yourself, you' re equal, he looks so much like you and I hate you and you three seem like, well, you denied him home. What did I say to him at once got me out? I said for you you have to make Odrin free. I' m out on the street.

6:39 I have to know who you really were and Auntie Mimia remembers me too. In the pool of aha she' s you, you' re something of a bottle, d will be yes and the truth was the niece. Let ' s play. Let' s go for the first question of talking unfiltered ahead b ay we start with a strong there, not that you filtered it, but there' s strong there' s dad, because if you don ' t know, you, as a patrol have access to all the you touch the episode. I say when you want yes, of course, you can pass, you can, no, you can pass. Or the point this moton is already saying the like had to be unfiltered. Gentlemen, the questions. There are questions there, but there were questions that there is no need to strip, that you had to do like a lion Exactly then says a second. At some point you' ve regretted being a mother. Nothing more never even when he was born and I was there, I was making a lot of money, never your mommy. No, but Ok is one Beldi, it' s another. The truth. It' s not one, it' s not that big. That' s a blessing. We totally agree. But according to day they weaved it like that well you said in the other podcast that like Stephane, that you can say that Ok I keep it for a little while and for a little while and for a little bit or not and that is also she could tell us, because it is how many years as mother the age of us, I for what occasion exactly in forty years forget that you, surely you have said that I should not have been mothers at any time. Oh, I couldn' t even stop everything. Well, a lot, okay, my mom' s here, but hey, hey, listen to the expression or I say hey, how would it be like Carlos said I said it in a podcast. It'

8:11 s not like you don' t want us to cease to exist and friars just give you the chance now, not because it wasn' t done anymore. We' re adults, we don' t live together anymore, I mean, they' re already married Most of us drink I don' t know if if I was on my way there Let' s hope that sick people who are there, right now, change the ghetto, so we put it in a situation. But if they gave you the chance before, when we were a baby or a kid, we would, in their case, be three, in the case of us, that were two, fucking say ok me. I can turn this off this child switch and let my mind not know and enjoy my life for a week and learn it again so not. What a go that went through the mind Look, even though you were an incredibly restless kid. How it started. We' re gonna plant you didn' t sleep the whole night. I think maybe up to six or seven, that' s not why I still have a sleep problem. I ' m not going to tell you I' m here for a moment.

9:03 Then a stump of seeing him told me what we' re going to do. Yeah, he' s really ill- treated. Now I said hey, I didn' t go out there. I did it but never really, never crossed my mind then, but quite the opposite. What happiness, what a cap, what happiness to offer at three in the morning a child head wet, not and you always shit like the other one in the afternoon. I' d see you all the way the first if you told me that in your time it was without light and we didn' t have an investor because the economic situations didn' t allow it nor plant and it was like a focus. Here ay already clean, tia the clean, and that was an inconsistent good, like a focus, because if it gave a lamp vegas the smell of the child, you know, but not even yes.

9:52 If I gave you a good cough, I' d fucking jam or shove it in. But that is you, you are mentioning me only of Ayian Carlos, you see that Jan Carlos was the one who p or a wonderful girl. Now sing an education. Well, it was always the same and always yes, she was a favorite, right, no yes, the favorite because she' s a female and she was the favorite. Because no, but look how weird, because they say that the second or the second eddie that the devil did not then Giancarlo, the cousin hears who happened to Cala Patricia, apart from that she was an incredibly wanted girl after four years. At last I was born to the girl a month to me gave one more you a mastitay that I could not carry for a while and here it.

10:33 Hence the trauma. There comes all the bad minutes clear and he looks and he looks here with her the milk dripped at me, but they told me I have to cancel it and they gave me something to cut it. I had to find a nurse who had Cala Patricia for about a week, a week and a half, and the nurse instructed her that she had to take it. I' d take almost eight ounces when you' d just take it easy for me to go to carla, but I' d go to sleep one night and watch the whole night. Sure, I' d listen to him with the monitor and at half past six or half past five, you' d wake up. She was giving her milk, she was going to sleep and I was taking her to my bed. Carla never slept in my bed. It' s not true, I don' t know and I' m perfect, not happy you still carried you, took your bed and lasted two hours. I didn' t see the flech, and in your case, Mommy, who I mean, who gave more work. I think Monica' s the first life that' s gonna fall for you.

11:33 We are, the others we saw, of course, but it won' t be why it would be better than Monica never filled everything. So, today, when my children cry, but it' s not hunger, but I let him turn around and all the way, and I kept Monica quiet, okay, and he kept quiet with the vibron. I, too, come with all the traumas and comic book fashion. And yes, it' s possible, it' s possible that I' m guilty of all obesity and that. But and here it' s going to kick no, no, yes, no, but let that one be literal and I don' t shut you up in any way. It was that such a nursery fell asleep. But in the end we' ll go and he' ll have a flat. But that was like bad maid ima, ah, of course ah, not yet that malcas caya on that floor. Yeah, let him know about that. As for the mean maid who made her tantrum was going to Patricia, to the only one and I drink an angel not, an angel not. So that goes because if there is anything to not this case that Patricia I am created, don' t wait. Let me finish on this case Carla Patricia was telling me last week. The truth is that you created very bad ay ay, but not her, for him, both and why he said about me, because in my house there was a preference for being the greatest. It was all because it will be the largest, the largest room, because it is the largest, but in which two the greatest primeblemas computers not the largest. I was given the use that the girl had

13:05 carlos, but in my house it was like that. That' s very facek That' s true. Patricia, he was told to go more panchita. You know that panchos are what your Rebots are, what I gave you the truth. But I' ve got the chito, too, because or no more, I don' t meet with the troops, but I don ' t see that. I had that computer in block, but we didn ' t like it. That you were a year, nine months, he ' s got three vats. All right. And that' s great, because we had it first and we sent it. I see him reading. The sma men go on, go on, not all of them. In the second example, I' ll tell you if, for example, we ' re going to say the computer. For example, he sits up front. It was him because I was big anyway, he was going ahead, because he was the big one. If suddenly there goes to Rome or the game Boy carla take Leon Carlos exploited and and he gave the new one of poque he lasted five years with him in G and they gave it to me the used one and to the b no, but I had a room appointment like this with a close jenne Vaina, with that if I yan yan callo girl he had a furniture, a furniture, he had a shelf. So that' s the product of everything we see today. There' s a lot of trades. I what we see today, well, is like nothing in a sense of grand selfishness. Look good. I' ve always said that they were selfish, right, it' s true. But he doesn ' t accept it. And yes, it' s true. But that ' s part of you. No and I don' t. We' re not going to follow a selfish person. Yes, he' s selfishness.

14:33 It does not mean that I this for myself, then, if it is not the egocentrism that he has to be in the first dead already appeared a competitive, good, definitive, competitive person. That' s totally not a supplier. And who taught me to give that the thing is I felt whatever it was, yeah, don' t make that sense. For example, brother positions literally have a personality that is dragged with that, for example, there it goes to the psychologist. No. I also think that really, that is, for example, the first, the first brother, has a personality of the first brother, the one who half brother, has a person of flu full of half brother, like that means between two that if Juan el Chiquito also with so literally the opportunity is perfect. The first bed I' m going to make it for you. But one thing about the second guy playing that was me in you my house. It was so Daddy, for example, at the moment in this case I' m talking about Daddy, because he was the one who gave the money weekly I love.

15:30 They were double yes to Monica time to arrive the other year, difference calls, but they started. It was college at school, I didn' t get a cheles at school, no no, but I didn' t. It couldn' t happen to me. And they bought that cafeteria. It didn' t bother me. That hears that d I won' t eat to see because I only have my life. But cool, that' s one, I already understood that I spoke was the big one and I was the half- baby. Less this one eyes daddy don' t love, but sorry, okay one hundred I' m going to play. Or there says Karina that you didn' t want to play game we' re already playing. It was those Karina in the live. If that' s not what we' re for. No, but I' m going to defend myself a little. Yeah, that' s right, the game boy thing, the computer thing. Sorry about the room, sorry about the bigger room, tell the bigger room. Yeah, then, but they bought you a laptop at school that they bought me or at college. I used Mami' s, which was one other colloquium to get to the university and every time you had tempered time they bought you the one with all the teams in the world that is called tell it and kill it clearly the future Chamber music.

16:37 My dad bought it for me I wish you had where the same thing went in your house. You what I marry. I wanted to turn out like I didn' t work you or that thing that works. I don' t know the guava has to work because it doesn' t collect but nothing. Let' s follow the process Let' s go to the second question. But for what, what, for what not, to start with you they changed things to you they gave you more permission, they were more permissive. With you, ay that you or you didn' t care to get out, not ever, but good exact. Then tell me I' ll let you get there at 2: 00 and carla at 1: 00. Why. Because I' m good, because he' s older than you did backwards Jean Carlos came to two and cove came to three and there' s still no devils to doctor, to three cove that' s four.

17:18 Everything here doesn' t look, because I understand you. A mother told me that you have to be here at 2: 00 in the morning, as you knew about the life zone stopper and one day I arrived later and it seems to me but it is to sit and I ma my head tight. Do not stop me, for you leave the house, then from the dichoteca to twelve on average calculate the stopper of the are them. I don ' t, no, no, yeah, yeah, it tells you here in the live. It is true that the former did not put her in China and the latter gave her permission even to sleep outside the house. But that' s just normal. The first one is the target. The theme of such an episode is called the desador. What an account we' re going to comment on. The second question is what makes you feel like a good mother. That' s where I think he' s present at all times of picketing. A little microphone amin to UE takes for you how to understand that you become a good mother. I don' t understand. It ' s told you nothing, I look good I' m a good grandson, but it wouldn' t be the children I mean and you see your children. I what you' ve been heard exactly that makes sense to you a good mother. How son not to see how or how exact I am of all I am today exactly that it has been worth so much all the many that I have given all that I have taken care of all the times that one told you things, advice. But that makes you feel like a good mother, the fruit you gave to that is, to see that they are proud, that they are good people and in your home it is that the exact thing that are good people that you instill in them. But I

18:55 ' ve never questioned whether I' m a good or a bad mother. Ah I am because one day you believe if they treat you in a way and you say, yes, but in this case it' s what you ' ve had as a conviction. For me, I' ve been an excellent mother. Or bye- bye, but that' s why I' m either out of it or I' m out of it, but let me finish. There' s a little joism here. Not that too really in the sense that, at least I, like you, say to see you grow up with values and everything that my parents taught me, instilling in you really that one has set foot. But a joke to cut patterns, well, if they' re good, because you have to find them.

19:40 That' s what I was going to ask him There' s DS car, there' s things that did to him in his upbringing, that you said that I' m not going to do anything. Uf a lot, yes or, but sure how that mommy. Well, I think the manipulation for me, I was manipulated all the time. My dad' s dead. They haven' t heard it from me, that is, but they manipulated me all the time, all the time. And I really hope I don' t think they' re having a manipulative bump or not. You consider it unclear, everyone is for use. No yes, oh, I don' t ask you, but how did they manipulate me in the sense. Emotionally We were seven at the end six. I' m the one in the middle. How it educates the patrician middle syndrome. It shows three little sandwich rooms as well, three forward, three small ones, that is, and I was in the middle, although my sister Mariberina wants to take me away, she really feels. I was the one who took all the problems of master. I had to cut a piece here. No, no, why not. But that' s middle syndrome. What is the subject of the medium we use. No, how can we hear on the Internet or what made you count as the oldest. How exactly is it spoken, that is, I was in the middle of taking all the troubles. The three little brothers of mine. I thought they were my children. It is true that my homes were a difficult situation that when my brother died, we

21:12 practically became orphans of parents present. So that' s what he did for my temper, because no one told me for my temper about how I am and the fly carlas mosquitoes. I remind you that in the mixeo and everything you say, then not loyally what was. Me. They call me there ' s a fly on the site. I say I' m pisces and I have almost all the characteristics of pices. There' s an incredibly motivated person, one I thought responsible for getting attached to the problems Ajeno and I ' ve really tried to make those patterns of my home. I haven' t repeated it. I ok a gras if people match the corduroy with the sign thing, because I always say that I am a read and that if I or I can already tell you that I don' t believe in it, but design or I am a capricorn and I am sensitive. I take things for myself literal problems, I mean, I have to learn to be empathetic without sinking into my empathy with the other. Sure. So, even though I' m a dry person, apparently I' m very sensitive, very much too much and I' m opposed to, but I' m nythic. I don' t have what I have a machine gun in this mouth, but it' s maybe that machine gun. It may be a breastplate for that very thing, in order not to wax its sensitivity it can be and that sensitivity of Capricorn, which also I do not believe in,

22:47 ah, but it coincides ah, yes, the panda, what coincides what I read are as well as the dominant panda. Not everything I believe, I don' t believe, I believe in that catadistic signs. Yeah, me, yeah, I' m libra. You know how books are destroyed room says they are balanced. But then, God would not be fair. If the one who was born in this sign is, no, no, not that. But one question. You read Capricorn and feel created. I don' t read anything. I' m telling you that before or that he tells her to feel the heat that I or I don' t come out today because she' s going to fall. No, no, that ' s nonsense, but that' s but I don' t know smelly. I thought as I said, but you don' t know how many people from other zodiacal signs I see them with the same characteristics as I do, which has to do, as you say Giancarlos, with the ascending descendant of this one, but no longer. After that, my mad Diana says I' m a book. We also talk very much about ourselves and what a pity he speaks very badly about us, not or the other way around.

23:42 I thought they were like normal people, just like I' m learned, and no one learned because every day I screw up and in a barbaric way. My big fight is a public confession. I don' t believe in anger anymore. Okay, sure, look, but we have to work. No, I' m working, even if you don' t listen to us. There are three of us, but it is important to recognize clearly, to know the effects of one and to work that out as I said, I am a perfect mother, imperfectly with much trauma, but perfectly true. On the contrary, yes, with all they are I repeated patterns, because I understood that they worked with us, although I suffered a lot in the sense that I was the oldest and I was driven away more than at least here I was not given no neither I said in my Carlos Jan Carlos I gave you. Mommy wasn' t thinking about what you' re going to do now, that' s you, when you didn' t give me, you mean it doesn' t give you times not that, but it' s clear what you say you' ve always thrown a phone at me. It wasn' t an infinite dibookstinum, a phone and an encyclopedia or that ranclas. They were nothing more. Ah look, but let him win family, because Granny threw Mom a jar and a ta hand and broke it on the wall It comes from family. If Mommy did me with a phone, she didn' t give me a phone call. No,

25:12 it wasn' t a love me. The terminus englos rivers. You remember the house of the rivers of Villa, Elena, which was full, has the wire over there and I stood up and put it together now and I had the piece of that grenade. So and the cyclopaid almost pulled my eye out, but nothing. After that, I didn' t throw it at you because it touches me too, it gives me a real sting, because the truth is. You threw it at me. I throw it in there, so half there. Then he whipped you there. But that was why the apology was already because I didn' t want to do the homework. I agree very much what we were on the balcony of the anacaone. Yeah, it was all about telling me. I don' t remember that n on his fault over there Dominicana is out there he has to have petaña look every day. That question is a little controversial. There' s little girl ' s toys and since I was a kid. Yes, for me, I' ve put it in anxiety, put it in society. Yes, but there are boys and girls and excuse me. Usually a girl sees a hundred girls who may like a cart, but usually a girl identifies more with a doll. Say whatever you want, whatever they put in society. Yeah, the impossible. I don' t think that there is that society, apart from what you say, that blue color is things imposed because they are society. Yes, the pink one for the girls, but really we, the women, are born with a maternal instinct that we have. What makes you identify with that person with a doll that looks like you. Yeah,

26:47 you don' t understand, yeah, it looks like you. That' s why we, the girls, got more into it. But you said you die with that maternal instinct, and the ones she doesn' t like, the dolls don' t have. No. No, no, no, no. No. I' m saying that they don' t have it, that it doesn' t dominate, that it dominates, that it dominates, for example, despite the fact that you say that you are the favorite son and wants to menquilar him. However, I identify myself more with cove homeland. Obviously, but yes, it' s female, no, but despite that, other than that, I wanted her to play doll and I bought her all the beards and made her shape. She wasn' t interested in dolls. I think they were at Adorno' s school, but I' m never gonna finish. I don' t think, uh, yeah, for me out there I loved the play, the whole mom or the pussy was as much thirteen to another as I got in love with the fourteen. Drigo, I' m taking the barbie and I' m telling you, it' s cool that Linda Rodrid and I were sleeping all over the ratty decorating the house, and when it happened to me, that happened like the saba. I used to love it in line at the house of the hour. Gian Carlos, I don' t know what your opinion is with that, because I already know that to was a little more open minded to the Ok Nicolás birthday that you are going to give him a barme a rite wait, because if not Ok is okay, excuse me. But obviously there are things imposed by society that have cost us a lot to break or change. I totally agree. If I go without Nicholas, I' m

28:18 probably, naturally, going to lean towards the things of a child in quotation marks, which are the carts that dolls as a child that I do believe. But if Nicholas I take him, I take Lila' s toy and Nicholas chooses, I won' t tell him what, I' ll take him to the children' s hallway, as many people do or, I ' ll let Nicholas decide what he wants and if he wants a doll, why not buy him a doll. Absolutely, if you don' t have to ask the parents. Oh, of course it' s okay. Obviously, I no longer buy anything, yes, a company the beard and if I pro i and Mayabel, the child has wanted me this what we do maybe, for example, there are people who do it, who look for an alternative, maybe I will barbie it if you don' t tell him look at this other one dot a fur that I know but I obviously don ' t. The problem is you impose things on us with a conra gift.

29:10 The girl takes her to the hallway and everything is pink. All things are pink. Yeah, when there' s girls he likes, he likes carts, he likes riding, he likes. And if the girl or the boy decides a toy, I' m not going to tell you anything exactly. There are parents who do. I too a niece that she is all loves that if a little box, that if a drone that if playing to have been Wars was not the one to eat. But at the same time he loves the unicorn, his favorite chorus in purple, which is one thing he likes that kind of toys, but he also likes the other thing to snag him in the wrist, but he likes a little bit of an iconi gatiti. You know clearly then I believe in that. Obviously, as you said, it is so imposed by society, especially the subject of colors.

29:55 As Mommy said, the boy' s blue came in to quote the girl ' s pink and it was not so long ago where it was changed. That which the men were getting pink and the real upside down, the blue was for the women because it symbolized the sky. Oh, I didn' t know used anymore. I did see him do story- throwing. It caught my attention a lot and maybe I don' t know if I sent it to myself in a video and the similar pink, that is, a degradation of the red symbolizing strength. Oh, okay, I knew that. I' m telling you, they' re making sense that men in a shirt know, but at first that was it. That was an o, sir. That' s when we were preteen. I think they started using roses. They were pink bands on a man already got him here at the Jancal. We' re going with another question. We' ve already given our opinion on that. How your finances have changed after having your children or how their finances changed at the time. You can have your kids and maemonica that are more recent. Well, in my case, well, all I buy on the Internet for the child is always there to slow down your addiction to ah Well, I don' t know what' s not for the child, so first you think about the child. I thought that wasn' t true, that' s like I was saying, but why and that ' s at least in my case, yes, that' s me thinking first and not buying you anything, very clearly, because Mommy said that she was already traveling and all the trunk of my cove and she accused us.

31:21 For example, if I' m in five, now I bought one for Dicora' s baptism and didn' t buy anything. Then all about the kid. My mom forbade me you' re not going to buy anything for the kids it' s for you and I stood up they said no. It' s just that I don' t, and everything you looked at, because if you don' t give me anything and it' s true how you change, it' s true. I think I still do, but I think the more focused question like that in the end does not yes yes or yes, or I represent myself I mean no, sir the bad milk in peace, not that a mother who did not have my children of di i mean me, for example, to say that you had to tell me Mira. Think about it, for a four- year- old boy who uses eight to ten. Bread the paper and I calculated that a paper is worth eighteen pesos. Yeah, come on, there' s a lot of eight of them read daily bread, yeah, when they' re newborn, then it goes down. Oh, yeah, I do, yeah.

32:13 But yet, well you Nicholas arrived at a time when I am more economically stable. I have to say it' s going well and it kills Pica. He' s finding me dead to talk about me, but it' s either clear stinging or more than marte thanks to giving trouble. I was lying yesterday saying here well that he was having me well, because I do it with a naturalness. It' s true, it' s true, it' s brandy or that well and I was going to say that it came at the best time for me as financially and with it was congratulations. So, not exactly, it wasn' t planned like that, but I feel the most expensive. I think that was education. Education, but I didn' t have disposable diapers. That kind of thing doesn' t look for him to turn around, one stops eating a tarante and buys it for you to pay for it I' ll differ a little bit with a genome about education. Yeah, yeah, there' s truth, or Iman doesn ' t. I' d pollute you up ahead, school principal. I understand that schools, it' s true, are above them. There are others that I see who are really overvalued in terms of money. But here ' s an episode that you guys had that is considered the best school is the most expensive one is true? Is that it, is it true, is it true? Isn' t that right? The best school for your son or daughter is the one that goes well, the one that treats him well and that, of course, your bane that you learn and that settles down, that you go so many thousand s s lifestyle, because here are people that put the children in school Chihuahua are your colors. There' s

33:46 a lot of you who want you to fuck with the best people. Gentlemen, the money doesn' t come to see you at night. Money doesn ' t make. Not sure, the money doesn' t make. Money gives you comfort, but you have to see what you do with this comfort, because it is economically yes. It represents a son, for example, when Giancarlos was born, the milk was powdered, it was a thousand much more expensive in powder. When Patricia didn' t hit, I gave her liquid. It can' t be ponita, but the entity had the oldest monic and I bought it were liquid had the best position I had. I bought him, I bought him, he was richer and yes, I contained the dust that I spent three hours beating him because Isomil' s was not well debated, because I couldn' t for the boot. However, that Patricia almost until the year was liquid, she makes a face much more wanted.

34:40 I had another one a little better, of course you understand. But like I said, I didn' t buy a weight at all, we bought a weight not if I wasn' t there. I didn' t squeeze a weight on anything of mine the basics on TV the comfort of them. How nice of you to catch it straight, no more, I named it the cans. Monica' s first year. That was the juvenirs. It' s the stuffing. I painted something outside the bottle of milk more, but for me that melt is with the canton of toilet paper. That ' s so deep. Yes, the fondito de profe until my time, but of your thing, the bottles of ah glass that were like Chiquitica, like Milack. That' s how critin was another position, because I didn ' t get to that little bottle. I was buying the similac lapta and with that lapta it was cheaper. So I was invading the four patric carla vibrones. Then he took eight ounces. Sometimes I don' t, but thank God he' s telling you what' s coming here. If you had a choice, how old would you be? I gave it until last week and days, until two days, until six months. Ah if I could have, yes, difficult, at least it was you gave it, grey lady well, there look the dairy cow or to be a thing.

35:59 I was embarrassed by people who were going to meet them and with the pats I got wet. I had to go with all three of them. It was the same. Ah put the monica prior until the three months I had to go to Patricia gave me no memory what gave me the tide of that one did not get sick the love died only could month and a half because the pediatrician said that what I was taking passed him the milk. I cried like you can' t imagine, because she tells me there I did feel like a bad mother, I say, but it' s what she says I don' t remember. What he gave me and in the meds they passed to the milk and with drink I passed shame, because it was until the year and he unbuttoned me to the people, I boy more that I see of that I opened to mame that truth already like a year completed and I believe that until the six I drew like this, but not me not me, but he started that brush does the people not pull me, pull already with teeth and sometimes I would have it a boy that is for me I say the milk, I do not have the maximum and I wish I could really give it to Gian Carlos. There was no shape with carla, they dried it off. I didn' t take the breast. Yeah, but a week and since I was a kid, stop that. From there and sell you know it is, Jesus river wave me this is exaggerated and I didn' t produce much milk, but with cove Patricia, I really

37:30 would have wanted all six. Now I wasn' t taking from the pediatrician that he wanted nothing else to be breast milk. And even though I gave a lot, I mean, I fell asleep and one feels sticky. So, for me to sleep the whole night I would give him the other formula, of course, because that held him more her más terne, very much me for like two months domens it was like that, but he was always my married, always I do not say my soon to give him the mind of the breast a marvel. Yes, no, no, yes, unfortunate, no, and everything done to him today, yes, that is, grace to him in madness. I did bring even and went out salu satia And what do we do then. I think that you can produce more, yes, yes, it has, yes, yes, they are no, and you have to go for that, that is, you have to every three hours that I don' t know how much. And that' s not for every lifestyle, for example, to say life, to go more than they don' t live Stress, how much that, that' s difficult. But it' s hard for me too. How it feels like when you guys had extractors that were days ago. Yes, yes, of course not, but Manual I only took it out when I traveled to Miami that year and Monica was three months old and stayed with Mommy and Odry, but how they feel she doesn' t look at me when I came back it was only a week, of course, that girl didn' t want to catch bad being not clear me and on that trip because Monica drank the water from the puppy. Don' t let me be jealous or let them

39:05 leave me alone with oh no more I' m going to crawl I would walk teased with grandma and with te a odry my love, the plastic of but with the water and already his granny. They gave him nothing. I have nothing to do with it. I imagine, it' s not like we' re gonna wait to see. They didn' t tell them anything. No. Then they confessed to me. No. We didn' t mean anything. I was well given some sna. I had not gone the sheath hears and look at that body just like you said to me with the jars, with the moustache di wy Fo. That' s mine Oh, my God, Mommy. There' s a person who gave him two years of boob. Oh, my God, you' re happy. That is a blessing, but it already says that milk after six months does not have the same faith and especially because it is given food. Of course, I ' m not a gua. There' s your son there, I' ll tell you. Says your son in the live that the story looks like.

40:00 I don' t know what I' m saying. Hey, there ' s a story. He tasted your milk not that I know not air or I give your husband. Yeah, well, you say it about her. Oh, my God, okay, this is more for good. It can be focused in the past on Doña Gras and Mommy who wanted their children to be when they grew up. And let all of you who want your children to be when I grow up what you give them win. And honestly, I never really think about anything or that you' re a dirty doctor, nothing is gonna be a baller. That' s really what that profession is. I never cared about that. I do, I always have a good one, it' s a psychosis that all mothers will have, i e, entrust it always to God And after the misfortune happened that happened instead it was called I got worse than that it' s one thing you arrived, you didn' t arrive, I mean, it' s that one day a friend sun looks very called mine what you call ba TiVo when all that stuff goes to college. Yeah, and you knew about the boys, ' cause I was hysterical and I stood out or drunk that playing one hour I could. No, or you said yes, him and me writing, that happened to me. No, yeah, that' s still happening, but I do, I do your trip and you' re smoking me.

41:21 I mean, there' s really a whore' s mouth. Again, I said what' s the big one that graces you remember, that' s funny. I don' t know, because of course we' ve said it many times. Few of you do know each other. Well, three little girls. I' m older than you. Hey, dik, I' m saying that it wasn' t me that gave you anything, that you hit the tea i. That' s Mara, that' s me. We' re saying it was Monica' s pafuñir the pons nica two the rope. But that' s when they left between prey and nothing goes ahead and they' re told, not one at a time. Many years ago I' m talking to you about twenty- two years ago, a lot doing a series with Alfonso Rodríguez. Then the maquillist of that time was he had several, she told us she had just given birth and had to go to the bazet aha when she arrived because she had her little boy, she has found the nana sticking her boob in the o. I mean, he didn' t go upstairs anymore. No, no, no, stop that. That doesn' t make sense, yes, and count, no. But there is oray Rodrigo, I am but maybe so am I.

42:40 But there are suckers that if you can' t come down. But I won' t feel with consent. He ho without consent, exactly wrongly done that he did it without consent. But and not that, Your Honor, there are grandchildren who stick to Grandma' s boob. There, uh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, book, yeah, yeah. It' s true that it doesn' t matter to you. What it has to do is that it' s limiting him. I don' t see him as more and I don' t see him and the whole mom milks for a moment, that is, as I see him like that, as Pinion said, no, she put it to her best. The boy was watered and she wanted no. I don' t, I think I had a lot of thoughts. You know I do, I know a person in that I get jail, because then she put it on her as a fool, because they already understand the no. No. No, no, because they tell them that it develops and that they start throwing milk. When they see a baby, I saw you and I hit it, it' s gonna come out and it' s gonna come out. No or yes, for that is to say that mentally they begin devotional. Mm mentally has a problem and wanted to get stimulated the lord and my aunt and my mom were born at the same time to me and my cousin. My mom went out to study and my aunt nursed me. Normal. But that' s another thing the two of them were giving birth and there was a conscion, but not that you leave your son with a babysitter and you get her and find the babysitter that you don' t love without your permission, with your boy you hit. So you know what the nurse and a milk says to

44:13 him his comment with what I said they give him their comment and he comes to sleep you see him now, that is, Mommy, right now, that' s the comment of ok you mom, that' s the comment. It' s another thing, already that other more situations. For example, I don' t want it. I played with Nicolás or Diego Anders Mr Ce O, I don' t imagine it there, that is ten people who like the breast milk, who don' t like to use the formula to my love, but if you can' t part, I am, but I mean, but what works I don' t feel it. I' d give Andrés the best formula or they' d expect him to stay with Nicolá. For me what this is like then a baby I don ' t know unless it' s due to death. But that' s due to death. I don' t do it. I' m not sorry. I know a thing like that or I drink, a childhood friend had died giving birth and I remember that my mom asked me you would make yourself willing to donate and I said yes, and the dad didn' t thank her, but finally he gave it clearly yes more, finally there was no need. She thanked me for the gesture, but they really fed her formula and there she is, the same i sounds yes. I didn' t have a problem. The book don' t say I wear it.

45:39 I don' t know what my staff is like. For me we' re going to see this question. What would you say to yourself during your first year of maternity and maternity in the first year in Monaco? Also what they would say to do my first months ago. Nothing' s going on. Keep going if or I think so, which is better is what it says the most to flow, because nothing goes the way you want, I mean, you say I' m going out at that time. I' m not gonna do such a thing. No, it' s not when you want to, when the child wants to. That' s what we were talking about, right now we' re going to go year, number two, with the door open exactly you know when the child wants. Sure, you do things to make things work. But you have to flow and that' s a little difficult for some people to flow exactly is you but I would tell you in the first year of motherhood. The truth is it ' s hard. It' s hard, especially because there was no valo service. You' ve lived to be a perez bread. You' ve been with me since you were fifteen days in the homework room. I' d put it there. That' s why maybe you were a kid who developed a lot of stimulation po or my Nicola are going to do a lot of development, because it' s not the same as going more than well that goes with Nicola up and down. But it was very difficult. But what would you say to me and I' m greg would not fix the things I might have done wrong. If there was that possibility and it was

47:13 that I fell asleep, that is, tiredness, he wouldn' t let me. I remember an image, but that everyone, that is if I do but an image, gentlemen, that was me with your brother next door, the tears crying because there was one that they had to moneme of the two, but one was peeled and then I stopped putting it on and I was going to give it no more, yes, more, like this, yes, well, but what happens that episiotomy, the cut that they make to one when one stops not normal, it broke, it tore me. So that had that area to be dry, and that was like a bulb, that is. Imagine that I pictured myself trimmed from the wall with one leg up, a bulb put there in another misation and the good one stuck here and the dad in another room and I with the tears at three four of the questions, tells you a bulb and put down there or something that gave me that area had to be. I know I totally did God, you know that I, that I would have changed. Now then I' m sorry I wouldn' t have changed things, because really what though that didn' t depend on me, what happened. But it was frustrating.

48:24 It wasn' t really and sometimes I was desperate. As Jessie says, and he' s an unconscious baby, I mean, the baby doesn' t know anything and he' s one in his own frustration. The clear pain down here is not, and lack of sleep, I mean, we have to sleep eight hours minimum. Well, it' s just a flow. It says there that as I that Abris knew da nuevis five, I was seeing him for the goat. I was going to tell you that he would have changed, that I would have chapped him more into playing or to dad because one, with the conviction that the mother does everything, the Wonder woman did not demand that he help me. Young man, he drowned with a milk that got purple and the dad that was giving him the milk and Uttaima never gave him. I can' t imagine there was that you already know. That was firm, that was desperate. The first time he fell out of bed was with the dad. The first time he' s already fallen out of bed was with the dad. So, I think Juan Carlos never changed him to say bread, but he changed his bath wings and bathed them. I think very little and I listened to one and I admire very much the parents of today who are involved. That' s what I was gonna say. A hundred percent or so, sir, but that too, but most people who heard a young man say I don' t help my

49:55 wife. I collaborate, I collaborate, because my son and I say wowlen that not. I think I mean I' m going to think that Manuel, the father of my children, was excellent. He gets up I' m saying that the nello was a hand. No. No, no, no, no, wait for excellent and that sense at that time. And the only thing that when I was number two, Grey Tapupu said. I mean, he left it to my Hijupul, but that' s what he said. But preparing him I saw verones, changing diapers, Pippi, never, never had a diego. He said he wasn' t going to clean Pupu and he got the first one at the clinic. We were black, the clear God would have finished the ostro. I just got out of the caesarean section I couldn' t move like this and the face what he did was an explosion and he was already childish. I already slipped it in Mommy ' s weed. Ah, that henchman. As Doña said, if I find that the parents, not everyone, as you say, but in the vast majority they have already changed a lot and their roles have risen their role They are very collaborative, because that society has changed already, the women also this decrease under the majority, that is, it is already a job of who worked yes, but I say that within fifteen days I was with my partner, but they worked, but it was not there, yes, not like now that the majority, that is, the couples both work and I,

51:25 at least In my case, I speak of mine is very involved and equally abel always sees it, that is the time that you face a boy and not myself is not in the business. Business, too. Apart from everything else, we don' t go with or that they mentioned a mentional horitarian mommy from the service and a question comes out to whom we talk without a filter. Nana or not. Nana that no, nothing, no, no, no, don' t think of me or not, but I couldn' t before. I don' t know I mean, I used to have some people with a monic, no, I don' t. I wanted to go another day and didn' t want a prayer that lasted three days, lasted exactly, lasted a week. Yes, why not, because we don' t have the job near her anymore and she comes to me and gets to say that a job near her daughter would earn less and she preferred to stay there, but then she said yes, that she would come back and then she stood me up. There I say, but you ' re one I want and I don' t want. I need, he needs like I need, but I don' t want to and I said no, Nana, my kids had the best thing. I was gonna say if your bald s wait, but let me talk. Be at peace, rest the best nanny in the world, honestly, and we left and for me we lost a part of our amilia life. But milagritos very attentive to everything. Hey, how I cry what I care. Milagrito is very attentive to everything. But I made everything clear to my boy. She attended

52:59 me on that exact day. So, she assisted me, but I gave them, I made the compotes. She helped me pack it. Yeah, I used to make her a compote, freeze them, but for a fortnight she would help me do that, help me bathe them. He was helping me. And when a bad birthday definitely what a wonder you' re talking while she' s running the boys. I don' t swing especially that there was a very intense one, yes I didn' t keep you no, and then and then what the Patricia also was no longer to be observed, but in the basics, basic was I yes, of course. The point isn' t that I think we talked to him in an episode.

53:40 It' s not that it' s a substitution for nothing. Yes, yes, there are people, yes, sisters to the doctor with the good babysitter, and what knows more about the child that my mom has. What happens is that also, as we speak right now, that is, there are many women working in eight to five and the child has to go to the doctor. Yeah, but there are times you don' t have. If you have three a lot of brother, ask permissions, gentlemen, they are so easy or they are not easy, especially weighing yes, yes cancelled because you have to be seeing for mesopas a lot today that this has three, boy, you have to divide into three, well, and there are times that the child has a medical appointment, that is, if it' s something serious, obviously not, but a scheduled appointment no, I mean, I don' t like it anymore I' m not going to do it. And I think I' ll pull you. If you, for example, have a job of eight to six that I know and your son is invited to a birthday, the child doesn' t go because you, they can' t You send it with a nanny. We' ve got to send him with the lullaby. I don' t like to hear, no, one, not notice year, no yes, but it' s reality. Thank God. I mean, in my case, I can make myself clear because you' re clear, because you own your business this phone.

54:40 I can go out or Hernanda pow Nana clearly nana are not necessary. Well, we said it here. I wish I didn' t have the time. I told you here. No, no, no, I don ' t know it' s a girl either and Tata was either sick of cancer at the level I have. I have it tattooed on my arm because tata was for one another, a second mother and part of the family. And all that means that I didn' t take her on a trip because she wasn' t used, she couldn' t even her dad wanted me that I don' t like anything, like with people and yes, you know, you see, yeah, it' s like it doesn' t. For example, if I go to an evil and I like to buy only unless very much that people are following me, then I had a dwarf, like all the time there hearing what you did to. That' s what I don' t like, that is, I like my moment alone, also with my son and I the nanny of m for moments that I couldn' t give, so you need. It must be your assistant.

55:30 He attends, but see more if the design. I' d rather have a baby in a darker with early stimulation, and that' s just one. I don' t feel like I' m slowing down my development or it' s worth a diminution Mine' s going to a daker. I was lucky they were both with me for years. School, so or I have taken the child to the kitchen all these days, but there are times so I can' t that the child wants milk and I still don' t know. The truth is that I had that it was r but I started to have a base- to- profit stimulation center of what people were seeing that it' s called totally says there' s someone in the efen. In these times it' s hard to find a nanny like that one you had. Unfortunately, that doesn' t seem like it anymore. That ' s a wrong pleyto from a town and offer it all to look at and blow it. Very difficult. My children' s grandmother, Doña isa, may she rest in peace, she said that because I always yelled at her ugly, she was not ugly, because for her she was not wearing uniform. You know, she was telling her I did, but she yelled at me and told me she was going to put it on. First of all, he didn' t already say that you were leaving me exactly.

56:34 He didn' t go out to put you bring that girl with jing tell me Doña made ferro was home. Imagine on his country birthday and the big salons. This imagines me as he the point that they are again, that is, that I did not have to do with one a rotte thing. I do business ever, and many of them didn' t like to wear the uniform. She will have her reasons, but for me Maltan is not in a uniform, because putting together those who prefer it the grams or the cho because she does not spend her clothes what there is looking for uniform. Make it nice, don' t you think it' s nice, make it comfortable? Mr Play, man of us from school, as it was horrible, but in the heat, Mr R Initial plan of service. Yeah, yeah, horrible And you have to be those nuns, you didn' t go with Mrs Silver, a white shirt with a hole, says the ambush. Graciela the masters, this is who they are. I could make it. Why you chose the name you gave your children. Go ahead, go ahead, Mr Grey, because that' s for you God, who you met, how many people. Or I got the Monica in my canoe.

57:39 I liked it and Alicia for Mommy, Mommy' s pink, Alicia, ah, but that' s you, that' s Bonita b now go with the second and Patricia, Margarita. I think it was going to be Queen reality, or what it tells you or if ah, but look they didn' t cheat me on this question. Not at all. I was there for Tia Irma, who is Mommy' s aunt, Mommy' s sister, who was like a second mom, was the aunt who could never have children and she was the one who was unliving all over the world in the Mira family, that is, one thing that equals Irma, wanted to live just as I was going to get out. Patricia was my middle name I liked, and Margarita was for Doña Elsa, Doña Elsa, Margarita, wow ah, I didn' t know it was for Elsa' s grandmother and sadder mother Garita and I drink by hand, a fraud, for her dad, not for Daddy and her dad. But now she' s telling her lately that Manuel Mauhermano how it was that you told her the other days. Manuel Mam tells him now he changed the name Mamfer, but that I speak it manfre and not Alfredo, because Initially it was the Problemoufre, but your grandfather called him mabolo, manfred but now I bufred nice house.

59:00 Of course, initially, when his dad was going to incapacitate writing, writing it went away. He left with that with the con we had talked, and then he said no. Finally I change it, because then they will tell Mama confred and they will not tell him Manuel was not Manfredo, Manuel who looks called Manfred Manuel to Enferman because it is important to know people, at least in my case, when he, the son is Male, the dad is going to get into the name. If it was Hembrael, he wouldn' t tell me anything. Nicolás is called Nicolás by Abel, Nicolás Diego is called Diego by Diego, because I, I really didn' t want him to be called Nicolás. I love the name. However, we have a very close person José Nicolás who we say to him, Nicolás, who I used to say good conchele. When we talk about Nicholas, maybe I think it' s for him of course you know Nicholas has to plant yes, no, he says it relaxing to go extra and puts that Nicholas they put to pay no to bel Nicole n then to me I don' t know why mine sheath. I don' t like it like close people who call themselves the same because you' re always applying, it doesn' t happen any more with what was what Dad called just like he can I mean, just like his dad says Andres is Joseph and he means. There was no way, gentlemen, there was no way. If it was low to choose your father. I this in my battle touched the middle name, which was a lawsuit also because he wanted the middle name as well. Oh, no, no, but what a hate you ran me there to your dad who' s Manuel. So yes, I loved Diego Enrique, but then one of my friends who gave birth three months before me, the boy, was named Diego Endrick, so it' s also clear. Sure,

1:00:31 sure, Diego Manuel, Diego didn' t want Diego Manuel, that I wanted that one and in the end he put André. He wanted Alejandro. I' m not Andrew, I' m away or Igo' s pretty, Alejandro' s pretty, but I wanted Andrew. Ok yes, there were others too involved Doña jessicarla and Jan Carlos, why will he be the truth that yes, since I got to dwell with Juan Carlos, I always put in my notebook Jean Carlos and Carlas love you already knew the name of before ah me, from before me too. And why your dad to toñ is atten Esa. We' re a derivative name. Look then, Mommy, but something happened with your family that your niece is called carla the same and you decided how you wanted to put carla on your daughter. That' s exactly what he said It wasn' t a topic. Patricia has loved me, even I say to her here the patria told me I called me cala cala, Patricia is hairy, you always and how I tell you and Mari and Patricia, Margarita, when I didn' t or passed Margo, I should have told her when they were already going to do it to me.

1:01:34 There' s even the video your cousins were born two years earlier. My sister asked me about him and finally what he' s going to call her and I look at her how what she' s going to call herself or him like I always say, as I always said Carla Patricia, Oh, so go to sea the same way. I' m telling you, well, they' ll call themselves the same because you took the name I said. That was yes and if you hadn' t had a female, well, but at least you, Hera, had my female, Carla, Patricia, that is now carla a c and carla peace or flesh. And in it I' ve read also after that I don' t know if that' s true, like the burden of names to clear ancestors and things like that. I don' t have to break what I didn' t want to be told. Diego, Junior, there you go. That' s the way I like it, I don' t say me or Junior, that' s the way it is, Junior, No, No, No, No, No, No, No, No, No My husband wanted to put a bonaparte on a guy. I don' t know there, but no, sir, Boa' s nephew, motonic, was Napoleon.

1:02:34 Another controversial question. You' d call your son by another sex name, since he does ask you. I' d have to be in that situation to know I' m coming. I don' t understand the question. For example, yes, he identifies himself as a man. There he would have identified himself as a man and told him to say no to Ishmael ' s face. On one occasion I was touched by a lioness from another place. He took care of me that he identified himself as Bron and told me that I told him no. Then choose not to enter that pugilate. Oh, me and you don' t. No, no, because I also knock on the door the last name. I' m going to talk to the person in charge of the department ok or last name no, but an adult, because of that a while ago I don' t imagine that that' s already now. Either an adult or a yes at the end, or the ferro response is a little difficult. Yes, there is an identification and there is an already, a conviction of feeling that if you are no longer of the sex that you are, I think there is a good thing that you can redolaría you hurs Chan tells you small, because I think it depends on the age, because if to me neither dioño nicolás small, tells me no, my love you call yourself lus not clear no, no, that is, I understand that the child is like for a guide or to burst it now yes, after a certain age, true. Yeah,

1:04:05 that' s because you get fucked with stuff and in the end, that thing that' s what I got fucked with, it' s not necessarily at the end. I can change my mind, or what' s the matter with such a small child. That' s my particular case that goes forward. Now I' m not and you' re young where I am, i e, the coli of the guide. Unfortunately, I, of course, am not going to treat him badly with many measures. I say it done, I try to find the nice way to tell him, but because you don' t like your name look at such a thing, I explain everything to him and when he gets to a certain age and he really goes on with it. Okay. There, yes, we have to evaluate it. I' ve got a good one with him to go psychologist and I don' t. But me. But in the case of a person who is not my son, if he is asking me to tell him in a way that is called such a way, I will tell him the way he wants. I' m not saying all that' s good, but that' s what he' s talking about, so he' s not my son. You understand, okay, a person who clearly looks at you ah if I like to be called a whore, I' ll tell you a whore no. I speak on the basis of how one hears greater than already. I mean, we' re already talking about that I know that it' s not something temporary, that it' s an exact h conviction and you have that reality. I told them as they say the art also that to expect him to be of age. Let' s go, little girl. I' d lead you with others. Another question. You agree that your children will tell you everything or there are issues you understand. They must be private. I' m not interested in being told there. I think you' re going to fuck us, you' re going to fuck

1:05:36 us, you' re going to fuck us. I think vice versa. It' s not that I' ve always thought about it and it' s that maybe you' re mad mom and that one. I applaud that and take off my hat from mothers who are friends with their children, but I' m not friends. It' s just that we, we' re not the daddies. Don' t tell me things that I mean, if you want to tell it right, but I don' t have to walk around. He didn' t tell me this and that I mean it ' s not that I didn' t. I had a lot of confidence with my mom and dad, my dad talked to me about things that hardly a man talks to a daughter. I was telling things to my already married dad that hardly a man talks to a daughter, a dad. But that ' s because he came out of me and found receptivity on his part.

1:06:25 But I understand, I understand that you shouldn' t force things to flow naturally that you want to make you feel comfortable like this and I feel comfortable with my role as a mom and not as a companion of being told. I mean, they want to tell me things right. But there is no limit that I now ask you no. I have to do intimacy by question no. No. I don' t think I don' t either. The other way around. I feel that or what I felt since I knew him that you were very open with certain ones that call yes, but be mother is that I know yes and I forgive that so lacks respect, because you treat her as much as you do to you that goes, like the charre of the hierarchies Ea, I treat grandparents as well as I do not, but it was aja, I treat very or one tells everything. Not impossible. There are issues that you say clearly Look, I' ll snore at him. I understand that you don' t have to tell it all now that your child feels confident that if something' s happening to him or her it has to be something of any subject, that is, sexual, greeting the idal class I mean, you have to believe, there' s a line that you have that very delicate in that, in being friends and that I have the confidence when they have a problem telling you, and that ' s what I want him to tell me if he has a problem in which I can help. You know clearly or a subject that he doesn' t feel self- conscious to tell me because he' s afraid of my

1:07:56 reactions. Sure. That' s what you understand and say there, Miss Grace, I always remember them from the best teachers we' ve ever had. Ga Gabriel the kings, Gabriela, how beautiful and how old you are. Let' s see how much the Gabriela Kings theme you remember her, don' t say those good ones. Not one day the college screened the I we won' t say. Let' s go here to finish this, this, this branch of questions. It' s part one. What is your position, before the measure, before the positive upbringing, go ahead, Dona Jesse Well, I said yesterday that I live you Matricia, that it will not lead to grandchildren. That' s what' s got to be sorry you' re not pregnant, you' re really pregnant. Yes, capoqueros, we also spoke grada. No. What I' m saying is that I' m getting more and more alarmed In today' s upbringing there' s a lot of debauchery, I wouldn' t say debauchery, but permivisibility in boys. In what should be allowed to be expressed, because it should not be corrected, that one should not speak loudly of any other evil lifting you up so that one has to speak with authority and if one has to lift the boz raised ok, you are doing no other way.

1:09:14 I don' t think you, like I said, didn' t see him in the perfect life, but really, when there' s correction, you have to do it. My thing you know that' s not done. Besides, they don' t say no bad girls. Imagine that you don' t agree. But also what happens is that the way to say it, for example, instead of saying it doesn' t run, you can say it and they walk you can walk, I think it' s n but it' s no longer motivation to give words. Not many people have mistreated her, and they think she won' t slap her and let her do what she wants. There' s just that it' s misinterpreted, because it' s not. According to what I' ve seen is that you have a different way to guide it, like to stop them from expressing themselves and you look for the bua and give her feelings feeling, which was not done before. Hey exante, don' t be like that, I mean quiet and already before if the boys open when the street moment is trauma because they told you streets well, I did, I was dad or, but you hinder very loving. Yeah, she, she, yeah, yeah, I take money in therapy, so do I. But life is a new color of rum. But it' s not like they tell you it' s not him. It is not that it is the forraform and also that many times they invalidated feelings. I' m not grey. If it happens to you, I think I' m fifty- nine. I ' ve been working in the school area since I was eighty- six, lying since eighty- three. I was eighteen years careful what you' re going to say about what, what of the children today, but where what you tell him looks different the upbringing of the boys in what I was a

1:10:47 school teacher to those of today and excuses, yes, it looks different. It looks different. I don' t know if the pandemic has had much to do with it, but what they' re growing up to be strong mutating when they say it' s strong, that' s the fact that it' s called parenting you. They are frustrated by anything and not, as you said, tolerance to frustration and then there is immediacy. Or here ' s the tablet thing over there. But, I mean, it has a strong theme. I' m not telling you it' s not like that, but that a lot of people have taken it wrong, I mean, you don' t do that. It was worth it, so positive priority is any saint because they do not apply it, as they believe that ah already what you want is not so. Well, I don' t mess like a military and a sweet man and I love my mom and the spine of my life and I love her with all her flaws and I repeated that pattern with mistakes. They called me Dad or what I couldn' t hand, and I repeated it with my children. They didn' t call me Dad I didn' t see you they gave you Dad anymore, they never mediated they never saw us. Like I said, we were seven and we were survivors in a house where we had two thousand meters, but ay

1:12:18 mames Rica, ay, but that never missed anything. Sin wasn' t much different there, so I didn' t know. They were playing mermaid churros. That was my mother' s house, when I was money, a din There the barks went in and they didn' t even know it. We did not count ourselves when Plaza Naco was the center of the figureo we had no more. Tien the best shop there was ours, the amazonites. What happened and let' s not talk and what we are where that money was. Looks like that' s not what I want to say. We were survivors because as we were so many with a tragedy in the middle understands and we came to my house and I flew the fence because there was no need to open the door and I am not cheated, no, so I say I am not cheating, no, maybe you are not traumas worth it, but you have things that come from before, from when your upbringing, that maybe you don' t see it as a trauma, but it is, who you are, that' s why you are formed to do a job. Third, by yourself you said that you and you had no forgiveness, that you understand John, you didn' t have access or it wasn' t so common information, therapy, help, that' s not that it' s wrong. It was just what you knew as normal and good, valid and good and it wasn' t necessarily the spa. He never told me, no, you don' t go, I went to me. However, if you did it where with us, to them ah

1:13:49 of course, because there with the question of right now that if I did not repeat or regret that the one that I would change to me never told me. No. You don' t see I was going to a wish. Now I knew how to run that one anywhere, because if my mom didn' t like me getting into a dichotheque, I went to a disco. Your Haly says everything now is therapy, right. That' s what you look at with the positive parenting thing, too. It' s true what they said to be ominous. A lot of people are confused. I clarify it here, right, because so they don' t go to and there are people who explain it to you much better. For example, Silvia Callado has always told me about it. You know how to laugh. He ' s very much playing the link link in English. I think the biggest moms look at the sun. I was a talk and that girl she, Mrs Mira, because she explained that. I mean, you see her maybe that' s you can' t just want to see a positive clairvoyance geril or that' s what I think about then you. I already said no such thing. Sir, that' s a process. Yeah, that' s not that easy. Exactly. You have one by one, or all ideas, because maybe it works for you, maybe it' s different.

1:15:01 Everything as a child is not the same. Maybe one needs more than another. Exactly. I see it that way, it' s just that I ' m going to exactly. For me nothing is radical, neither positive nor negative. Well, then, with this one announced, because if I go to Patricia, we end the normal episode, of this special episode with our mothers. We continue more with more normal questions or special episodes. This is how it is, this is the normal, then comes the special episode that is for pattern people. If you, as a listener, want to continue listening to this group therapy we have developed here between us and our mothers and sisters, it is your time to become a pattern member. Thank you for being here to take advantage of the fact that your mother and sister are here.

1:15:48 She works in education. Have a question. It' s so temente momento cala pro learn chat you can work, because with children who have learning problems you need learn already you know you said man. If you' ve learned yourself, then this moment doesn' t take advantage of it Dramanoropati has created Preirny Space. Ah, you' re just learning Space for are bul Lings. Then each pot works with other than psychologist, clinician, psycho, pedagogue. He is studied in Spain with master' s degree and everything.

1:16:33 So I didn' t do master' s degree, the master' s degree in strong podcast. Then Carla. It is there, then, in the afternoons in creative Learning Space, which works with children, with situations and learning, then incarnate. The evaluation area is there on Instagram, it creates learning Space and Mami and Carlas Patricia are obviously the leaders together with our comforting aunt for you of joyful world, happy world school, which has from preschool, they have yes, ok from pre- school to high school, that is to say, to sixth. Now sixth high school and be champion at the time of us, fourth high school. So, there it is, they have a learning camp this summer which is for precisely those children who were left with lagoons. I' m not saying things by guessing, because I don' t know exactly. Although they were left with lagoons, they will learn with fun, they will bathe the pool, but then adding to see the density of the water while they are bathing in the pool. Well, there we are, and we always talk about it. Here' s sable fine Thoots Sablé a business that he has since catering ha. They are jams, also has all day dish of the day aproximately, has frozen products, has everything you need for your events. Of course I do. And Doña Grace, because she' s a pedagogue and works in a private institution that we can sound good, because I' m already crazy that July comes to

1:18:04 such a holiday band and Doña Gresfesor' s camp wants July to come. That' s true, says Ray Da, you' re not giving history and art. No, or he stayed with history, no more, the suns and social and art. Then nothing. Thanks for being here. Get up and get up early, you' re not gonna record early. It was recorded early. We love them so much. I think I have a chance, he doesn' t say. We love them so much. Yeah, he' s already got the story from Crystal' s door. Stay by the tale of Gita' s game. He just knows. We all do, because then they say they recycle. Also Gossallamami looks for all of them always or lookout point. Look my little friend, Abel looks at a greeting to Miss Grays also Liani Mabel proña Gey has a strong fan. The parties are graycerists. Yeah pattern See you on the other side, bye Cho, tell them podcast