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Hello everyone and welcome to ideas for
a better life. I am Eugenio Palla,

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ruiz, reader, hard- working, writer and lover of personal development.

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In today' s episode we'
re going to talk about the book

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Renueva Te, a book written by
Steven Fortic. But first as always,

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remind yourself that you have at your
disposal a compilation of the best ideas about

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personal development, told in a super
practical way in my four own books.

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You already know them free, healthy
and happy, thirty- one days to

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improve your life, minimalism for normal
people and seven steps for a purposeful life.

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You know, you have the four
books available on Amazon and on the

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website, of course, three www. Ideas for a better life. Point

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com I leave your link in the
notes of the episode and now let'

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s talk about the book Renew.
Nothing restricts personal development more than keeping people

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anchored in current perceptions of themselves.
Then this book offers us an approach to

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discover what the author calls the true
you, which is a higher view of

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yourself that includes not only your current
state, but also your potential state.

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This book is a journey to your
authenticity, it' s a journey to

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your true identity. That identity you
already know, is something that is being

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forged through the countless choices that we
take every day, both small and large,

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and that must be aligned, of
course, with a vision, with

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a purpose, with something bigger than
those little ones, that those little actions

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have to have, has to be
aligned with your objectives and your vision,

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which is what remains above those objectives. So the first thing the book tells

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us is that improving is a journey, it' s not a destination.

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So you' re never gonna be
stuck, even if you feel stuck,

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you' re never stuck unless you
stop, unless you give up, unless

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you stop fighting. If you stop
in that process of improvement, if you

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quit. What you have to do
is first recognize that you' re stuck

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and that you' re going to
abandon or that you' ve already abandoned,

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and then seek help to get out
of that stalemate and take that first

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step. It is what will transform
your frustration into a sense of direction,

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into a sense of purpose. Committing
to progress means two things accepting where you

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are. First and second thing to
refuse to stay in that place, and

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that' s something that depends totally
and absolutely on you. Deciding to move

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forward by recognizing that you are not
stuck unless you stop, reflects a deep

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confidence in life and not only in
life, but also in the power that

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flows through YOU, and this is
what will pave the way for you to

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be able to urge that new you, an improved version of YOU itself.

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Of course, this sounds great,
but what' s stopping us, because

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each of us is stopped by a
different thing, but deep down it'

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s always the same. It'
s fear. You can' t let

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fear define your ability to fight the
protests of your reptilian brain, which is

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where fear comes from. You know
that recognizes your value and changes your outlook

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from scarcity to abundance. The idea
is that you get up every day with

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the conviction that you already have enough
to do what God or what life has

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called you to do. Do not
fall into those two traps that are comparison

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and doubt, think that you were
worth neither negotiated nor compared. So don

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' t be intimidated by the trials
of others. Embracing what you are means

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recognizing that you are a work in
the process of creation, that you are

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destined to grow and transform, So
make peace with your imperfection. Don'

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t validate for your achievements and eye
neither do you sink for your failures.

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You' re enough as you are, and that' s enough with what

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you have too. What if you
fail? What if failure you link with

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action and disassociate yourself from the result
sow your seeds. That' s all

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you have to do in your day- to- day life. The story

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of your life isn' t going
to be written for those times when things

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are going wrong. It' s
going to be written by the times you

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get up, when things have gone
wrong and you' re able to get

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up. And another very important idea
of the book is that what you tell

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yourself matters, so change your perspective. Silence doubts, silence fears, because

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they only do, they will only
undermine your confidence and focus on the journey

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ahead protect yourself from negativity, choose
to see your circumstances through a different lens,

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because although we are all emotional beings, we are not defined by our

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emotions. I' ll give you
an example. Happiness is not something that

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just happens. Happiness is something you
must seek and actively cultivate and embrace that

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new self means understanding that that happiness
comes from within, so personal responsibility has

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a very relevant role to play in
feeling happiness and therefore requires attention and intention

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to own your emotions. Actively choosing
happiness is an essential step towards well-

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being, towards a better life,
toward feeling well spiritually and emotionally. Keep

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this idea. Everyone is responsible for
their own happiness, so think about how

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you can take steps to start cultivating
that happiness, which for you will mean

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a different thing than for me in
your own life, God or life depending

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on what your beliefs are, has
equipped each of us with exactly what we

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need for any stage of life we
are in. So take advantage of your

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capabilities as unconventional as they may be. When I say abilities, I mean

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talents, I mean passions, and
take advantage of them to fulfill your purpose,

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to have, to become that new
you with that new vision. So

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you know, identity is something that
is built through our daily choices and that

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improvement is a continuous journey, not
a destination. What' s the problem,

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fear. What to do with fear, not letting him win changes the

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prospect of scarcity to abundance avoids comparing
you and accepts that you are a work

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of art in the process of creation, that your self validation cannot depend on

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what you get or what you don' t get. So watch what you

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say to yourself protect yourself from negativity
and start seeing things with a lens,

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with positive glasses, because happiness is
something that is actively cultivated. So it

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' s our personal responsibility to start
living a better life. If you liked

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of my latest book for free.
Seven steps to a life of purpose and

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without further ado I say goodbye.
Thank you very much. As always and

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until next time