Los 4 pasos para materializar lo que deseas

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Hello everyone and welcome to ideas for
a better life. I am Eugenio Palla,

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ruiz, reader, hard- working
and lover of personal development. Today

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I want to share with you four
steps to materialize what you want. Before

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starting, as always, remind yourself
that you have at your disposal a compilation

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of the most relevant ideas and tips
on personal development. In my four books

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you know them free, healthy and
happy. Thirty- one days to improve

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your life, minimalism for normal people
and seven steps to a purposeful life.

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I leave you the link to all
of them in the episode notes and now

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we' re going to talk about
living better. Who do you want to

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become? What do you want to
turn you into? Clearing your vision is

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a fundamental step in any life.
You have to know exactly what you want

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and you have to be able to
visualize it accurately. That is the first

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step in realizing what you want.
Research confirms to us that the brain does

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not distinguish between real experiences and visualizations
and therefore, imagining your real life to

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the smallest detail not only will inspire
you, but it will also alter your

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perception of the world, it will
alter your behavior and bring them into line

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with your goals. They think that
ninety- five percent of our thoughts,

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twenty- five percent of our actions, of our reactions are driven by our

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subconscious mind. This is a reality
and therefore commands having our subconscious world in

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a space of high vibration is fundamental
to achieving results, to making things materialize.

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It' s not magic. I' m not talking about magic here.

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I' m the first one who
doesn' t believe in those things.

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What I' m saying is that
if we think, do, and

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say things that are in line with
what we carry in the subconscious, obviously

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the results that we' re going
to get are going to be much more

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like that than what we have in
that subconscious. That' s why one

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thing that can help you in this
first step is to create a dreamboard.

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Dreamboard is a mural in which you
put everything that inspires you images, for

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example, everything that you want in
your life, everything that reflects the person

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you want to become having a plank
of dreams on the wall. It'

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s a very visual reminder and,
in addition, it' s a daily

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permanent reminder of your goals, and
that' s going to influence your subconscious.

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You' re not going to materialize
what you want by putting it on

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the wall, but you' re
going to do a lot more propitious than

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your actions. What you say,
what you do during the day, be

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aligned with what you want, with
what your subconscious wants. If you'

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re able to put what you want
between subconscious, the result you get on

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the other side after your actions,
etcetera, is going to look a lot

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more like what you want. But
remember very important that plank, that mural,

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must reflect your authentic desires. They
cannot be desires influenced by external expectations.

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It can' t be what your
family wants, what your friends want

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what they want. The media must
be their own desires, because otherwise this

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exercise makes no sense. When you
gain clarity through a vision, when you

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know what you want, then you
are also preparing the ground to overcome the

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two barriers with which most people find
themselves in their goal of living a better

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life, which are fear and doubt. Overcoming these barriers is the second step

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to materialize what you want and the
process to overcome them begins with recognition.

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It is essential to face our limiting
beliefs, our fears, our doubts.

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It is essential to put them in
question, because that diminishes their power.

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For example, if your fear is
to fly, ask yourself what the rate

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of plane accidents is, find it
on the Internet or wherever you want,

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and compare it with car accidents,
for example, with bicycle accidents, motorcycle

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recidivists. This is an example,
but it is about which issues. Everything

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that that little voice inside of us
that we all carry in our head that

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often doesn' t help us,
limits us. So, when you'

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ve done this, you have to
replace those old beliefs, those old fears,

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with empowering beliefs. This is called
reprogramming and it' s very important.

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Why, because a very significant part
of our daily thoughts are repetitive.

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We have them day after day and
obviously, we want those thoughts to be

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born from a positive root, not
from a negative root, because you know

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that our thoughts are born the way
our beliefs filter the reality we perceive through

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the senses. And sometimes the problem
isn' t fear. The problem is

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not the doubts of the present,
but the fears and doubts of the past.

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So, if what you need is
to get rid of those shackles,

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it' s imperative, first to
forgive yourself and, second, stop judging

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yourself. You recognize yourself that in
the past you did everything you could in

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the best possible way. At that
time, with the information you had,

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something happened, you learned from the
experience and since then you have grown up

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and evolved as a person. Your
past doesn' t have to define your

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future, at least if you don' t decide to allow it when you

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have a vision. Step first,
and eliminate fear, doubt, and limiting

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beliefs by empowering beliefs. Step two. The third step is to align your

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behavior, focus on cultivating behaviors that
reflect your true desires and are your true

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desires, because at the end that
what you put on that plank of dreams

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becomes reality or not. It'
s not magic, as I was saying,

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it' s not magical, it' s something of the world,

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it' s fantasy. It depends
only on your active participation, our deepest

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desires, your vision expects from you
more than a passive wait, and that

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is why you have to align your
behavior, with your vision, with your

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aspirations, with your goals. You
have to embody the energy of what you

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want to attract and you have to
show the universe that you deserve it.

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Therefore, the visualization. Having a
vision is a starting point that' s

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fine, but it won' t
do you any good if you don'

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t take action afterwards. What'
s the best way to start taking action,

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because it' s very easy to
see how people who are already where

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you want to go and copy,
even if it makes you feel uncomfortable because

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remember that the growth is outside your
comfort zone. Forget to please people,

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forget about the identities imposed by others
or by your past self and get into

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the authentic version of yourself from now
on be yourself, without apologizing. Therefore,

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remember once again that your past only
defines your future if you allow it.

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So they eliminate excuses and do those
things that people do that you want

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to imitate. He does those things
over and over again in an untiring way.

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If you want to be a writer, write, if you want to

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be a footballer, if you want
to be a runner, run creates a

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routine in which every task is directed
to fulfill your aspirations and trust the universe.

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Persevere and then persevere more and then
more. If you have a vision,

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empowering beliefs and add a proper routine. The only thing you need to

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realize what you want to realize your
dreams is to trust the universe. That

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' s the fourth step and I
already know sometimes this trusting the universe is

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very complicated, but believe me I
don' t know why. But things

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always develop as they should. The
process is perfect, as it is.

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Be patient, impatience. All he' s going to do is interrupt the

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natural course of events, is crash
into the universe. The problem is that

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we have the desire to have immediate
results, because that' s what we

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' ve been taught in the movies. Movies don' t have to wait

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long. The problem is solved in
a couple of hours. Life doesn'

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t work that way. We'
re not going to get results right away.

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Avoid having that way of thinking.
Don' t tie yourself to too

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strict deadlines. Instead, take a
more fluid, more organic approach. Things

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will happen when they have to pass
and trust the universe. Besides, it

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makes you stronger. It allows you
to stand firm, even when the results

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don' t match your expectations.
Trust the universe. In addition, it

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allows you to find satisfaction in the
present. It allows you to appreciate what

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you already have is to thank it
allows you to cultivate the full attention that

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is so important. And all this
together, it helps you minimize negative n

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n nss. It helps you minimize
limiting beliefs, insecurities during that waiting period,

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I repeat, there will be a
waiting period. Entertaining a vision,

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putting on routine, removing limiting beliefs, and making things happen. There'

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s gonna be a waiting period.
What I' m trying to say is

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that the last step is that confidence
in the universe. The fourth step is

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to know how to wait, instead
of obsessing about future successes. Live fully

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the present. Celebrate the moment,
don' t constantly anticipate trust in the

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universe is very important. This last
step is the one that supports your whole

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project, it' s the glue
that holds your whole vision. So you

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know that. If you want to
materialize what you want, you have to

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do four things. Follow four steps, clarify what your vision is, eliminate

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fear from doubting limiting beliefs, replace
them with empowering beliefs, align your behavior

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with your aspirations, with your vision, and finally trust the universe. Adopt

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these four steps one by one and
you will be closer to reaching your dreams

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and living a better life. If
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about this topic and about other topics
of personal development very interesting in the notes

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of the episode and without further firing. Thank you very much with always and

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until the next