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I am Eugenio Valla, ruiz,
reader, hard- working and lover of

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personal development. Today I want to
talk to you about the idea of happiness

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and how we can get a little
closer to it in our day to day.

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further down and now we' re
gonna talk about happiness. Happiness is an

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ideal state of being It is a
state that we obviously all aspire to,

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but many people believe that they will
achieve that happiness through material goods or through

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gaining recognition of others. And that' s not like that. Happiness has

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much more to do with being than
having. I shouldn' t buy a

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car in the hope of happiness.
I should be happy and from that fullness,

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from that happiness, decide to buy
a car because it complements my existence,

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so I need it, because it
works for me, to go to

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work, etcetera, but not to
be happy. Happiness is an independent state,

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or it should be from the material, especially from a certain point at

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which survival is more or less guaranteed. And that point, at that point

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we have already reached in most Western
countries. Therefore, to approach happiness we

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must concentrate on being, not having. And we can do this in two

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ways. Taking the road to what
you really want, to what you have

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really come to do to this world, that is, through your purpose and,

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on the other hand, being grateful
every day for what we have.

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These two simple things are the essence
of a happy life, purpose and gratitude.

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Purpose and gratitude. There is no
need to add anything else to this

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formula of happiness. If you want
to live like this, with purpose and

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gratitude, you' re going to
have to build your life from the inside

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out, you' re going to
have to understand that your time in this

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world is limited and that you shouldn' t waste it doing things that aren

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' t in line with what you
are with your true self that you live

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like that. It' s nothing
but dying ahead of time in a conscious

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person every action is aligned with what
that person is, not with what he

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hopes to get out of that action, doing things to have is putting us

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in survival mode. If you do
it in line with what you are,

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you will have an inner world in
peace and the outside world, which is

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still a mirror of what you carry
within, it will reflect that same peace,

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it will reflect that same tranquility.
We have come to this world to

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create things from what we are,
not to obey a lot of orders that

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we may not even share. That' s very comfortable. That' s

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living without risk. That is living
without taking responsibility for our own existence,

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but it is also limiting our potential
to survive. Creation is an act of

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will. It' s something that
springs directly from who we are. It

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is, in a way, the
expression of our freedom. It is what

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allows us to be aligned with our
true identity. And the soul knows what

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resonates with our being The soul knows
what we are. Your soul knows and

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lets us know. He lets us
know in a thousand different ways. But

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the soul can neither decide nor make
the. It is the mind that chooses

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to follow the soul or not to
follow it, and it is the body

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that acts and executes that decision that
materializes it in the physical world. When

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the body the mind and soul row
in the same direction, then we enter

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into harmony. Then we began to
rise. And this allows me to repeat

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it, because it is a key
concept your soul that drags the wisdom of

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thousands of generations. With it you
know what you have come to do to

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this world and it is your mind
that must decide to do it or not

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to do it in a rational way, and it is your body that must

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execute those orders. And if you
do so, if you follow this order,

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you will be done and, as
a result, you will have what

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you have come to this world for, that is, it is your soul

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that guides you using the tool of
consciousness. But you, then you have

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the free will to act or not
to act. The problem is that many

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people don' t listen, even
to themselves, they don' t listen

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to their own conscience and then they
clearly regret those who have been trained in

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personal development, even though we still
lack many things to learn, those people

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don' t live permanently worried about
making a living. They live permanently concerned

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that their soul, mind, and
body act as a true team. And

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the irony is that it' s
precisely these people who get it, who

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get their soul, their mind,
and their body to act together. It

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is these people who often have the
least difficulty in life, not with being,

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not with doing, not with having. They are those people who do

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not want to have at any price, they have because they do what they

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are, so in their surroundings everything
is ordered and life can go on calmly.

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His course and it' s curious. But the more you know yourself,

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the less you lack, the more
or less you want the idea of

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worldly success, but paradoxically, the
more abundance you receive in your life that

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is basically a little bit. The
idea of worldly success is a paradox.

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So I, what I can recommend
to you is that you trust yourself the

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first, the second, that you
do what you have come to do to

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the world every day and, third, that you accompany it with good habits.

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It is a very simple regime to
trust to do and good habits.

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It' s this is this you
have so simple. Surely if you are

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consistent and consistent, I can surely
lead you to the life you want.

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But there is another flaw in all
this, happiness, besides the purpose,

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has another flaw that is gratitude,
because the end of the process is to

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be to have, is not to
have, is to thank, is to

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appreciate, is to be deeply grateful
for what we have, for all the

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experiences it brings us. Life.
In the end, what we think or

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the concept we have of good and
bad is a subjective construction. Even that

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construction or that meaning changes according to
the cultural context, according to the geographic

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context, according to the society in
which we move. Everything is relative and

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everything that happens to us happens to
us. If you are able to see,

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even if it is a small feature
of perfection in everything that happens to

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you, even in those things you
disagree with, then you reach a higher

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state of personal development. Nothing wrong
with the universe. Life is wise,

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life is accurate. He doesn'
t usually make mistakes. In fact,

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he never does, even if there
are things that hurt us and that happen,

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things that hurt us and hurt us
a lot besides, but that is

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the case. It has to be
like this in the universe. Everything that

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happens happens for something and is the
right flow of things. That is why

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it makes no sense to live in
fear, to live in fear of death,

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criticism, loneliness. All those fears
are not going to help you and

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they' re going to stop you
from creating, they' re going to

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make you just react to what others
want and it' s going to stop

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you from knowing who you really are. Many people do not know who they

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really are because they live in fear
and that fear prevents them from following their

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conscience. That fear prevents them from
aligning their actions with what they really are.

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And obviously, that fear, at
the end of the process, prevents

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them from having and prevents them from
feeling grateful. They' re not creating,

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they' re following what someone has
told them is right, and all

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out of fear, out of damn
fear, but it doesn' t surprise

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me either. Throughout our lives,
the system has been telling us that if

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you do something you like, you
shouldn' t be paid for it.

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That' s why it' s
an absurd idea. Right, if you

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do something you like, then the
way you like it, they can'

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t pay you for it anymore.
That' s why there' s so

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many people working on things they don' t like, they don' t

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give them any satisfaction, they don' t like it. That' s

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why, when you' re sitting
at the alarm clock in the morning,

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it' s torture. And that' s why they' re just thinking

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about going on vacation and on the
next holiday, on the next bridge.

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And how they feel like they feel
bad because they have to work. Then

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you understand it' s fair to
be paid for it. And that'

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s why we live in a widespread
misalignment because many people don' t know

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if most, but many, many, many people think they should do something

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they don' t like to make
money. And then, when you see

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someone who' s making money,
even the best, who' s making

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a lot of money, doing something
that' s also his passion, something

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that he would basically do for free, then you think it can' t

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be, that it' s fake, that something bad should be doing or

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that luck. That can never happen
to me. That is the mentality that

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the system has installed for us and
on which I want you to reflect today.

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Thank you very much, as always
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