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Hello everyone and welcome to ideas for
a better life. I am Eugenio Palla,

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ruiz, reader, hard- working
and lover of personal development. Today

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I want to share with you the
main ideas of Robin Sharma' s latest

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book. It' s called the
wealth money can' t buy I'

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ve got it around here. Before
I start, I want to remind you

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that you have at your disposal a
compilation of the most relevant ideas about personal

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development in my four books. You
already know them free, healthy and happy,

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thirty- one days to improve your
life, minimalism for normal people and

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seven steps for a purposeful life.
I leave you in link to all of

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them in the episode notes and now
we' re going to talk about Robin

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Sharma' s Book. The wealth
money can' t buy. Every day

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people from all over the world are
pursuing wealth, setting ambitious goals, dreaming

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of having a lot of money,
and trying hard to reach that point.

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But there' s a trap.
When they do all this, they tend

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to overlook the most important form of
wealth, which is the wealth that already

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resides within themselves. Robins' book
forms part of this thesis and explains eight

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habits that will allow us to enhance
that kind of wealth, that wealth that

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money cannot buy. The first thing
we must understand, according to this book,

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is that real prosperity begins with personal
growth, that is, the key

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to a good outward life. It' s a good inner life, because

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your inner world shapes your outer reality. So the first habit Robin Sharma proposes

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to us is to leave behind limiting
beliefs and commit ourselves to our personal development.

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And this means, for example,
that you spend a few minutes each

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day in the morning to reflect.
You can be writing a diary, you

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can be meditating, you can be
planning the day, it can be making

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a list of the things in your
life that you' re grateful for.

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Also start spending more time every day
reading or listening to podcasts, taking courses,

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looking for mentors and people who are
where you want to be so they

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can help you get there at last
your personal development. They' re small

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steps, but those little steps change
your perspective, they make your fears,

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your doubts turn into confidence. Little
by little that your mistakes are transforming or

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that you see them as if they
were steps of some stairs that you are

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climbing and also that you see adversity
when things do not turn out as you

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want, as an opportunity instead of
as a drama. In other words,

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no amount of money however high it
is will ever be able to buy the

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satisfaction, the fullness, the freedom
you feel when you decide to mold yourself

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and become the human being you have
always wanted to be. The second habit

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of the book begins by understanding that
without your health, economic prosperity makes no

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sense. Your health is and will
always be your most valuable asset, because

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your path to true wealth is not
just having a lot of money or being

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successful. Your path has to be
a sustainable path and you will only be

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able to have a sustainable path if
you take care of the most important thing

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that is your body think about it
this way, a multimillionaire person with a

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terminal illness would surely exchange all his
money for an opportunity to have health.

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So it doesn' t matter how
much money you have in the bank if

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you can' t enjoy it.
Therefore, the second habit Robin Sharma proposes

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is to integrate into your daily routine
four things, rest, exercise, good

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nutrition and full attention. Don'
t just eat food, feed your body

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with things that really nourish it,
not with processed garbage, that will exhaust

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it and harm it, that your
food is your medicine. So if it

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doesn' t hang from a tree, if it doesn' t grow on

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the ground, and if it'
s never been alive, don' t

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get it anymore. Exercise also another
very important pillar within this second habit.

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Begin to open the exercise as a
celebration of what your body can do and

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not as a task to be feared. And the practice of full attention is

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also very important. You have to
see it not as an obligation, but

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as a way to access inner peace
in the midst of this chaos of modern

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life. In other words, investing
in your health is going to be the

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best investment you' re going to
make in your life. The third habit

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that the book explains to us is
to understand that we must combine financial well

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- being with physical well- being
and mental well- being. It is

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not a question of replacing each other. It' s not one or the

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other. As many people think,
you can effectively achieve financial prosperity without sacrificing

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your physical well- being, your
mental well- being. And the secret

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to doing so is to understand what
the real role of money is. Money

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has to be a tool to enrich
your life, but not the ultimate goal.

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It' s not money for money
to enrich your life. Money must

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increase your freedom, it must expand
your options, it must open doors for

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you, not limit you. And
this is where the concept Robin Sharma calls

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sufficiency comes into play. True wealth
does not consist in accumulating endlessly, but

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in understanding what it is that you
need to live the life with which you

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will be comfortable. That' s
sufficiency. It' s not conformism,

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it' s not giving up,
it' s seeing money as a means

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to support your values, as a
means to improve your well- being.

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So I invite you to take a
moment, when you finish listening to the

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podcast or right now, to define
what is enough for you, what would

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be an income goal that allows you
to feel comfortable, that allows you to

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devote yourself to your passions, that
allows you to contribute positively to the world.

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In the end, what I'
m saying is that we have to

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cultivate a healthy relationship with money.
We need to invest it in experiences that

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help us strengthen our ties with the
people we love, or in hobbies that

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make us feel good or in donations
to causes that matter to us, because

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accumulating wealth is not an end in
itself is simply or should be a means

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to enrich our lives, to make
our lives better. The fourth habit is

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to understand the importance of social connections, because social connections enrich not only your

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life, but also that of others. When you adopt the habit of surrounding

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yourself with people who inspire you,
who motivate you, who support you,

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then automatically level up you open the
doors to new ideas, to new possibilities

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that you might never have been able
to discover By yourself surrounding yourself with that

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kind of positive people who drive you
up gives you access to more knowledge,

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more resources, more support, and
that, obviously, can help you overcome

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challenges. It can help you seize
opportunities that are not normally within your reach

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or that would not be within your
reach as a lonely individual. That'

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s why Robinssarma' s book proposes
that we create our own master Mind.

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Master Mind is a group of two
or more people with whom we meet periodically

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and share our progress. We encourage
each other in our projects and find solutions

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to the problems that one may have
if you don' t have anyone who

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can serve you. For this reason, perhaps the time has come for you

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to consider moving or considering changing your
environment. The idea is that you need

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to surround yourself with people who are
better than you, because it' s

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those people who are better than you, who are going to help you get

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to places that otherwise you wouldn'
t get to, that will raise you

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to levels that otherwise you wouldn'
t reach. The fifth habit is to

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give priority to what is important to
your loved ones, even if it is

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not important to you, For example, if your child is passionate about something

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immerse yourself in it, try to
understand their enthusiasm. Participate because that level

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of empathy, that level of involvement, will not only reinforce your bond,

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but it will also show that you
really care about their happiness, even if

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it seems silly to you, even
if you don' t share it,

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even if you don' t end
up liking it at all, but show

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that interest in what the other person
considers important. The sixth habit is to

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transform your work into a source of
purpose. We' ve talked a lot

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about this in the podcast, so
I' m not going to stop too

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much either, but let' s
get the ideas that robins Arman proposes to

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us the book goes very much in
line with what we' ve seen here.

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The key is to put your talents
and passions at the service of others,

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identify your talents, identify your passions, identify what the world needs and

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set your professional life around what unites
that magical triangle, talents, passions,

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needs. The seventh habit is to
make a list of things you' re

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not going to do anymore We intend
to make lists of things to do or

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tasks to be done. What Robin
Sharma proposes to us is to make a

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list of things not to do.
For example, stop comparing your life with

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that of others on social networks,
stop spending unnecessarily on things that you really

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don' t need to stop saying
that there are invitations that, deep down,

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you would want to say that don' t get away from the screens

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for a while to reconnect with the
world around you to re- enjoy the

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present moment. It' s about
saying no distractions, because eliminating those distractions,

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you' re going to be able
to focus on what really matters,

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which are the rest of the habits. And the eighth and final habit of

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the book is to help others.
Adopt the habit of being kind always because

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only that will greatly enrich your life. It can be helping a neighbor,

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it can be smiling to a stranger
no matter what. Each of those little

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gestures creates a domino effect creates positive
energy that will improve not only the lives

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of the people you relate to,
but also your own life. So you

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know, it' s not all
about attaining outer wealth. There is an

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inner wealth that is much more important
and that we can enhance by putting these

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eight habits into practice every day,
committing ourselves to our personal development, taking

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care of our health, cultivating a
healthier relationship with money, building good social

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relationships that drive us up, diving
into what is important to our loved ones,

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making our purpose a profession, eliminating
all distractions to focus only on what

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matters and starting to help others.
Start putting these eight habits into practice right

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now as soon as you can.
If you do, not only will you

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improve your life, you will also
contribute positively to the world and you will

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reach a state of wealth that really
has no price. If you liked this

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to know much more about this topic
and about more topics about personal development.

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In the notes of the episode and
without more means. I say goodbye Thank

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you very much. As always and
until next time