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Hello everyone and welcome to ideas for
a better life. I am Eugenio Valla,

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reader ruiz, stubborn and lover of
personal development. When we embark on

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a journey of personal development or professional
development, it is common to encounter a

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human landscape that seems to have stopped
over time. Ours has always been,

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our usual relationships, although they are
still valuable and even if we still love

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all these people, they may somehow
fall short to accompany us in this new

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chapter of our life. As we
grow, as we evolve, we change

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and, logically, it is natural
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o o o o Our values are
also changing. But that transformation that accompanies

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personal development can lead us to feel
a little displaced, a little lonely,

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a little out of what our usual
social circles have been. Until then.

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You' ve felt that way once. It is as if we were living

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a different experience, an experience in
which everyday conversations no longer fill us in

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the same way they filled us before. Now we want to explore deeper topics,

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we want to share our new passions
with others. We want to discuss

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ideas that we have never discussed so
far. But we often find that our

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friends, our family, they are
still immersed in their same routines, They

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are still immersed in the conversations of
always the themes have not changed you change,

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but the world around you or the
people you have around do not have

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to change you advance towards a new
version of yourself and the social environment tends

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to stay more or less static.
Then this discrepancy can generate some discomfort,

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especially at first. But what I
propose to you today is that you see

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it from a different point of view, that you see it as the impulse

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you need to seek new connections,
to search for new communities, to seek

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new relationships that will drive you to
go even further. This situation does not

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have to be a cause of discouragement
or dissatisfaction. This only means that we

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are growing, that we are expanding
our horizons. It' s the signal

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you' re going to signal that
we' re really making progress. When

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our usual environment says it doesn'
t follow us in conversations or in things

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we like to talk about right now, then my proposal is that you use

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that momentum to look for new connections. And how we do that, then,

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imagining that we come to a whole
new city for ourselves or a whole

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new country, to what places and
days to meet people, where you could

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find people who are in tune with
those goals, with those aspirations you have.

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Now it depends, obviously, on
what you want to know. There

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are activities that can fit better with
that purpose, with that new life that

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you have marked yourself. If you
want to be a writer, you can

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join a reading club or writing club. If you want to do other things,

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you can be enrolling in certain events, certain groups, clubs, etc.

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At the end of what this is
about is that you look at your

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city, look at your surroundings with
new eyes, and try to look for

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meaningful relationships in places where I'
ve never been before. What do you

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think is the opportunity to expand your
network of contacts, to surround yourself with

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people who understand you, who understand
the transformation journey you are in, who

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understand your new goals. In the
end, this is about taking the step

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outside our comfort zone. It'
s about opening us up to new experiences,

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new places, new people and,
when you do, you realize that

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you' re not only expanding your
perspective, you' re not only expanding

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your knowledge, but you' re
also creating connections, new wheels that will

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accompany you on that journey you'
ve decided to undertake. It can be

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a journey of personal growth, it
can be a journey of professional growth,

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of professional reinvention. Any of these
things, because, after all, life

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is a journey and on trips you
are constantly discovering things and then the philosophy

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behind this little pill today is that
you find like- minded travel companions who

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don' t stay anchored in the
usual circles if it' s not what

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you want. So find those like- minded fellow travelers so that your journey

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is as best as possible and so
that you can also live as best as

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possible and without further firing me.
Thank you very much, as always and

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until the next