Avanzar realmente en la vida

0:13 Hello everyone and welcome to ideas for a better life. I am Eugenio Palla, ruiz, reader, hard- working and lover of personal development. Today I want to talk to you about what it really means to move forward in life and how you can do it too. But before I start, I want to remind you that you have at your disposal a compilation of the most relevant ideas and tips on personal development. In my four own books, you already know them free, healthy and happy, thirty- one days to improve your life, minimalism for normal people and seven steps towards a purposeful life. I leave you their link in the notes of the episode as well and since many of you have asked me how to hear where to train in personal development.

1:02 I tell you what has worked for me, which is the master' s degree in personal development, from IPP' s institute of positive thinking. You know it is the best training that exists in this field, because it covers depth the six main areas of life, self- knowledge, body and health, emotions, relationships, transcendence and money and professional career. If you want to take a look at the free class mastre, I' ll leave your link down there in the episode notes too and now we' re going to talk about moving forward in life. There are two phases in every successful person' s life. A first phase, which is that of self- realization, in which these kinds of people are dedicated to creating the person they want to be molded to forge themselves have a desire, think about how they will achieve it and act to make it happen. But these people are not happy when they finally get the result they were waiting for. These people are happy when they are able to appreciate, when they are able to recognize the process that leads them to that result. Not the result itself, but the process. That is, they are happy when they are present on the road and when they are grateful for what they are getting little by little during this

2:35 first phase of self- realization. Successful people focus on themselves, not on others. And they do because to take off they need to overcome limiting beliefs, they need to overcome negative thoughts, they need to overcome excuses obstacles for the mind that we normally have full of fears. They don' t fool you, too. They too all have a mind full of fears so that that mind and those fears do not stand between what they want and the action they have to perform to achieve it. Some successful people in this first phase even completely isolate themselves from their environment, especially if that environment is negative.

3:22 The second phase, after self- realization, is self- transcendence. At this stage successful people shift the focus of self towards giving the world the best of themselves in an unselfish manner. That is, at this stage they share knowledge to positively impact others. And it is at this stage that their interest in material success decreases, when priority moves towards the well- being and success of others, not to their own well- being and success. The problem is that most people work or work with the goal of accumulating enough wealth to be able to retire one day. And this happens because most people don' t see work as a source of personal fulfillment, they work on things that don' t generate any passion for them and that' s why they perceive work as a curse. So, what I' m saying is work as hard as you can, but don' t work chasing the money, work chasing your personal growth. And in this we are our worst enemy. We sabotage ourselves with excuses, with negative thoughts, waste money or surround ourselves with

4:53 people who slow us down. We do not want to admit that we are responsible, not for everything that happens to us in this life, but that is the reality. We are. We are guilty, no, but we are responsible. And then there comes a day in the lives of many people in which they really have to face a hard time, a moment that causes them a lot of pain. And that moment is the one that defines who they' re going to be from that moment on, that moment is going to lead them to be the person they admire, the person they want, being the person they respect, or it' s going to lead them to sink. When pain is greater than fear, than the unknown, then people say enough. And then we started to change. And then we realize that our environment is imbued with fear. Then we realize that we will not be able to move forward in real life, truly advance until we free ourselves from our limiting beliefs and our toxic environment. And that' s when people enter that first phase that I told you before, that even phase of isolation, that' s a hard phase, but that' s fundamental to knowing who

6:27 you really are, what you want in life and start growing. From there, if you are already, like many people interested in personal development, if you are already in that stage of authorship, I encourage you not to listen to anyone. Don' t listen to me, don' t listen to anyone. Just listen to the people who are where you want to be. If you want to be a writer, listen to other writers who are where you want to be. Don' t listen to people who talk to you about how to make money on the stock market. There' s no point in listening to people who are where you want to go. Many times we feel that we are not moving forward in life, simply because we are listening to the wrong people and eye, many of them will have all their good intentions. Others don' t. Others will directly want to throw you away and want to take your money, or they will act badly. Another council.

7:32 If you are already in this phase of self- realization take care of your body, it is impossible to be truly connected with what you want, with what your soul wants if you are abusing your body. Every day, for example, the system has taught us that drinking alcohol is normal when you are celebrating something and the objective truth is that the human body is not made to endure alcohol. That' s why. That' s why alcohol tames the mind. That' s why you feel bad and with that scattered mind, with that cloudy mind, you' re not going to be able to connect with yourself, you' re not going to be able to move forward in life. Honestly, I don' t understand the custom of celebrating things by destroying oneself. I can' t understand another point. If you are already in that phase, invest your time and money in trying to improve yourself, in doing those things that make you feel better in the long run.

8:37 Invest in yourself, invest in undertaking with purpose, invest in those relationships that bring you positive things, etcetera. And, above all, if you are in that phase, create experience mistake, re- create, re- start, and when you have something that can be shared share with others, without expecting anything in return, without waiting for counter- performances. It' s at that moment when you' re going to start generating gratitude and little by little without haste, but without pause. It will come to abundance in the form of money or in the form of whatever. But it will come to plenty. And when that abundance comes, for example, in the form of money, you have to understand that the goal is not to stop working, because if you' re waiting to have money to stop working, you' re digging your own grave, you' re somehow starting to die. And the goal is not to buy many things either, because deep down we need nothing but four basic things. The goal is to live, continuously working on your passion and then, when you get it, you' ll give it the same way you' ve been called crazy, you' ll still be left momentarily alone because you' ll feel good and feel good is the way the soul has to tell you who you are. To tell you that you

10:09 go that way well and, on the contrary, to deny what makes you feel good and to get away from it to do other things is to destroy yourself. Don' t. Basically, what I' m trying to convey to you today is that our life has three dimensions. There is the body, there is the mind and there is the spirit, but most people live only in one of those dimensions. It is true that sometimes that dimension changes throughout life, but very few people and very few times are centered on the three areas at once not only experience yourself as a body reads good books, reflects, writes, teaches others the things you learn. It seems that many times we move through life with the aim of not thinking, with the aim of applying the law of minimum effort and being permanently comfortable. And life.

11:11 It' s not about being comfortable with life, it' s about living in peace and living being just a body that wants to be comfortable, it ' s living by following the instructions of that system we talked about in the previous episode, that system that doesn' t care that you think for yourself. Our mind is a tool and we must take care of it and two use it the same, exactly as with our body and with our spirit when you live in that three- dimensional world, body mind and spirit. You can finally aspire to enter peace with yourself, you can finally aspire to raise your level of consciousness and, finally, you can aspire to know who you really are and believe me that is exactly what it really means to move forward in life. If you liked this episode, please, give me a like share on social networks or visit ideas for living better as there you can subscribe and download for free a copy of my latest book, Seven Steps for a Life With Purpose. And if you want to learn a lot more and train a personal development with the best experts, check out the free master Clash of

12:41 the ipp' s personal development master online I leave your link in the episode notes. Down there, next to my books, and I' m just saying goodbye. Thank you very much. As always and until the next po po poo