Venciendo las dificultades

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Why the affective relationships I have are
not stable. I like assertiveness because it

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invites us to prudence that what should
motivate our word is always love is You

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and that is already the basis to
go out to conquer many goals, to

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fight, to give a better version
and enjoy life fully. You know life

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is full of adverse situations. I
could say that they give existence a taste,

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a sense. Without adversity, life
would be unbridled and even linear,

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filling us with weariness and boredom.
That is why we cannot deny the existence

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of that situation. What we have
to do is figure out how we can

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deal with them. So when you
start asking yourself what I do to avoid

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trouble, you find the wrong answers. What you have to ask is how

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I face life' s problems.
You cannot be exonerated, be exonerated from

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conflicts, pain, rupture, difficult
situations. What you have to do to

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be happy is learn to face them, learn to find attitudes, actions,

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words that help you solve them that
help you move on. I have to

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say that, from my spiritual experience, I firmly believe that behind each of

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those situations there is a growth,
a development, I say it in religious

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terms, there is a blessing.
I believe that firmly. Behind every complex

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difficult experience, behind every adversity,
there is a learning, there is a

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life lesson. Ah, what I
need is to find him. What I

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need is to be able to specify
what it is that teaches me, which

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causes me so much pain. I
understand that it is not easy for many

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to accept this statement, because sometimes
it is very difficult to believe that such

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a painful situation, so hard,
so difficult, generates a growth, gives

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me a blessing. But my claim
is that there is and you need to

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find her. That is why today
I assure you that there is always the

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opportunity to use that so painful,
that so difficult, to grow, to

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mature, to be a better person. The important thing is not to be

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amylized, not to be won by
the feelings of pessimism that may be living

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in the midst of that adversity,
in the midst of that combat, let

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alone lose hope and fall into that
magical look that makes us believe that everything

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is lost and that nothing can be
done. It is necessary to continue living

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in love, in hope, in
faith. To do this, I propose

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an analysis of these three attitudes.
The first one, love. I think

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love is the fuel of everything.
It is what can make us understand the

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most complex realities. It is the
reality that allows us a motivation to sacrifice

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ourselves, to stand. In spite
of so many attacks. Love makes us

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find reasons for that which hurts us
so much. And when I talk about

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love, I talk about self-
love, I talk about love to those

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people who are so important in life
and, of course, I talk about

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a spiritual experience of love. We
also cannot let those situations fill our lives

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with hate for revenge, because you
and I were born to love and were

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born to give us generously, to
receive others generously. I share that when

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I am in difficult times, in
times of adversity, when I feel shaken

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by the dynamics of pain, I
always think of the people who love me,

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those people for whom I am very
important, for those people who surely

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want to help me solve the problem
and then I feel welcome, I feel

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recognized, I feel driven by the
love that those people give me. Ah

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I also think of those whom I
love, those who are waiting for me

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with more strength and maturity to continue
helping them to live happily, those who

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await me completely at home, those
who are thinking of me today, who

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pray for me, who generously serve
my life project. Love is fundamental to

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finding meaning to adversity, to the
difficulties I live. It is love that

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fills me with strength to move forward. Think of those who love you and

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also of those who love you.
Second, faith that for me is always

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faith in oneself. First, I
believe in myself, I believe in what

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I am able to do, I
believe in what I have done throughout history.

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It is also faith in others,
in those who have objectively demonstrated that

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they deserve my trust, in those
who have demonstrated in the battles of life,

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that they are loyal, that they
do not leave me, that they

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accompany me. And of course,
faith in God, in him who has

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given us life, who has called
us to existence, in whom he sustains

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us every day, because it is
he who allows us to continue to exist.

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He' s the one who gives
us the self. It is he

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who never abandons us, even though
we have. Our spiritual experience has to

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be an experience, a relationship.
It must be intimate, it must be

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intense, not only in times of
difficulties, but more in times of difficulties.

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I must always be developing my spiritual
skills. But, sure, where

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I need that most is at the
time of pain and it' s at

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the time of suffering. Hear that
spirituality serves you to believe, that you

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will succeed, to believe that there
is God' s help from within you,

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that enables you, that strengthens you
to overcome what is in front of

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you. Sure, it won'
t exonerate you from the difficulty. Sure,

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it' s not gonna be magic
and it' s not gonna snap

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your fingers to make the difficulties go
away, but it' s gonna act

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on you to get you through.
And third, hope, which is the

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consequence of love and faith. If
we do not know loved ones, if

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we believe and trust in God,
then we have hope. I mean,

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we think tomorrow will be better,
we think the future will come pregnant with

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good things. That' s why
I hope, but I' m actively

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waiting. That means that every minute
is a battle engagement, an effort of

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intelligent answers. Hope, faith love
are three attitudes that characterize the spiritual human

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being in the midst of difficulty.
And there are three attitudes that allow us

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to find the teachings, the choices
behind the adversities. So, today,

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looking into your eyes at you,
you' re always with me in this

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podcast, in these episodes. I
want to invite you to go ahead,

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to give up the battle, not
to give up, to trust that you

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can achieve everything you require and to
know how to specify what life lessons are

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hidden behind that experience. Thank you
for being with us, thank you for

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sharing this episode. If you think
someone needs it, share it, share

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it and don' t forget the
Orational, The Man is alive, Don

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' t forget the book The Orational, The Man is alive and is with

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you. Cheer up or you know
ma