Ser feliz: superar obstáculos

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Bombax, why the affective relationships I
have are not stable. I like assertiveness

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because it invites us to prudence that
what should motivate our word is always love

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is You and that is already the
basis to go out to conquer many goals,

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to fight, to give a better
version and enjoy life fully. You

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know a friend with a philosopher'
s pose. It tells me the obstacles

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are inevitable, but the way you
face them determines your growth learns from setbacks

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and goes on. For a moment
I am silent and try to understand each

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of your words and you are right. Human beings, by our condition,

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are faced with obstacles, adversities,
contrary experiences, winds that threaten to lead

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us to the direction different from the
one that believes. That is why he

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says well that obstacles are inevitable.
No one can believe there' s a

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life without problems. No one can
fall under the scam of someone who tells

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him with this text, with this
word, with this method, there will

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be no problems in your life,
because the obstacles are the seasoning of existence,

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because our other status as embodied spirits. It' s always giving us

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difficult moments, complex moments. In
other words, the important thing is not

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to wait for a life where we
are free from obstacles. The important thing

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is not to look for an existence
in which everything flows as we want.

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First, because it' s not
going to be true and, second,

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because life can lose its meaning and
it can become a boring experience. So

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what you have to do is define
what is the best attitude to face the

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obstacles, because that' s where
the difference is. It is there where

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life, either becomes an exciting and
wonderful experience or you can become a heavy

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cross to bear with what attitude you
face problems every day I pose four negative

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attitudes to you. One of denial. No problems, they don' t

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exist, they' re mental.
That' s a wrong attitude, whether

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you want it or not. The
problems are there and they will be imposed.

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They' re there and they'
re gonna make you feel their presence.

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The second wrong attitude is magic.
Oh, they' re gonna work

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out easily. I' m gonna
snap my fingers and they' ll figure

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it out. I' ll do
a magic prayer, an open cadebra,

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and they' ll work out.
It' s not true. The obstacles

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of life require effort, dedication,
commitment. The third wrong attitude is the

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fatalist or I' m not going
to get through it. This is my

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misfortune. Everything' s lost.
I can' t overcome this situation.

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We can' t fall into that
dramatism, because it' s not true.

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There' s always a dark night
tomorrow comes a dawn. Then you

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cannot decree that everything is already lost
and everything is left, that you are

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defeated, that everything is already meaningless. And the fourth negative attitude is to

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assume that this obstacle is the fruit
of your guilt, of your destiny and

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that then you are a man or
a woman enslaved by the sines of existence.

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No, no, no. None
of these attitudes are fundamentally valid,

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because they don' t solve and
because they don' t help you find

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the tools they require. Be clear
that obstacles are always workable. We all

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face them at some point and we
can all overcome them. Sometimes we untangle

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the knot completely, sometimes we win
the adversary, other times we just lose,

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we assume the situation and move on. That' s why today I

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want to invite you rather to have
three attitudes. One learns from setbacks.

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One of the keys to personal growth
is learning from the obstacles of adversity.

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When we face a setback, it
is important to reflect on what has happened,

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to identify what we could have done
differently. That will not only help

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us find a solution, but often
the only thing that generates us is a

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life lesson so as not to make
the same mistake again in the future.

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Another attitude to move forward to an
important key to personal growth is to move

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forward after a difficulty. I know
it' s easy and even valid to

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get discouraged when things don' t
go as we have planned, but it

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' s essential to remember that we
always make mistakes and that we always have

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the ability to overcome ourselves. The
important thing is not to give up,

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The important thing is to move forward, The important thing is to believe in

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the goal and continue on the path
that leads us to its achievement. Fourth

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pardon. Third, it generates relationships, i e synergies. What is required

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with positive people, people who encourage
you, people who support you, people

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who love you, people who reaffirm
you, because you just can' t.

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There are times when the massaging of
the situation is so strong, you

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need help, you need to talk
to someone, share with someone. And

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now yes, the fourth is a
healthy spiritual experience that I call, a

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healthy spiritual experience, a spiritual experience
that connects you with your essence, that

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is, that connects you with the
best of your being and that at the

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same time makes you understand that life
transcends, that life can be denied,

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that there is always the opportunity to
understand how that situation fits the whole that

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we are. You know that I
live always trying to strengthen my spiritual experience.

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So today I want to invite you
to have a spiritual practice that helps

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you to love you, to value
you, to help you trust you,

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to make you able to generate your
own projects, to develop your skills and

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to believe that you can overcome it. Everything. Hey the obstacles are inevitable,

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but you can make them a great
opportunity for growth or you can make

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them a very heavy anchor that sinks
you into the sea of your fears and

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the sea of your pains. Today
I want to invite you to compare those

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four negative attitudes that I think lead
to failure, and those three other attitudes

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and yaw that help to trust and
believe. I am always convinced that,

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although we lose that even if we
do not find solutions, we are going

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to move forward. I invite you
to take time and calmly to find a

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