Falsos dilemas

0:00 Bomb. Why the affective relationships I have are not stable. I like assertiveness, because it invites us to prudence that what should motivate our word is always love. This and that is already the basis for going out to conquer many goals, to fight, to give a better version and enjoy life fully. You know how careful you are to fall into false dilemmas. I think it is very common for us to fall into those situations where the two possibilities we find in response are negative. I know that life always puts us in front of bifurcations, but I also have the certainty that life does not reduce the possibilities to two, as we sometimes do, and when it reduces us to two, we have to analyze well. We have to work well, because it is quite possible that we are facing a false dilima. A false dilemma is an error of reasoning that presents only two options as the only possible ones,

1:30 when in reality there are viable alternatives that are not considered this fallacy. Because the false dilemma is a fallacy, it usually presents itself in a dichotomous way, that is, it puts us to choose between black or white, ignoring the existence of many shades, of many grays that are important, that are valuable and that change the sense of reality. I want to tell you that false dilemmas are typical of rigid minds, of simplistic minds, that is, of minds that have learned some ways of reasoning and that believe that there are only those or worse, of minds unable to understand. The complexity of life. It' s just that life is multidimensional. Life is polysemic.

2:37 There is no one sense, there is no one dimension and simplistic minds discover a relationship and give it as absolute and believe it is the only one. Then be careful to face false dilemmas. But eye also false dilemmas are used as a strategy by manipulators. Those people, men and women, who like us to do what they want, people who want to subject our freedom, our ability to think and who want to tell us you have to do this, and one of the strategies they use is to present us with a false dilemma. These people manage to impose their truth, making us feel that the possibility they pose to us is the only one. They exist or are the best at a crossroads that is usually manufactured. I insist, these are forms through which the manipulators take you to choose what they want. I imagine you ' re wondering, hey, and what false dilemmas are. Well, I

4:10 give you examples of a typical one or my family or my job. If you' re not with me, you' re against me, if you don' t eat what I serve you, stay hungry or buy this product now or lose the offer. If you' re not popular, you' re nobody. These are daily examples of false dilemmas. If you analyze, you realize that each of those expressions is reducing the complexity of life to two ways and there are not always others. There' s always a lot more.

4:55 I' d like to ask you four strategies to deal with the false dilemmas. The first strategy is to identify alternatives. The first thing is to recognize that there are more options than are presented there. It analyses the situation critically, creatively and tries to identify possible solutions or courses of action that have not been initially considered. That is the first great strategy, with critical capacity, with creative capacity. You' re looking for other options, other alternatives.

5:44 I' m sure you' ll find them second strategy. The premises must be questioned. It is important to question the assumptions on which the false dileno is based. They are really the only two possible options. All relevant factors are being taken into account. You have to ask yourself that and you have to ask yourself calmly, calmly, but acutely. Question those assumptions. Don' t let them impose them on you, Don' t let them present themselves as absolute, as unique, as true, as you have to have. Third strategy seeks information. Of course, you have to find additional information and today the Internet is an almost infinite possibility. I don' t know if you' re from my time, but it cost me more, because I had to look for encyclopedias, I had to look for texts, get into the library and look for information until I found it. There' s a lot of information on the Internet today. Of course, you have to do it, always critically, because you can' t believe everything you find there. But yes, the information needs to be expanded, i e that issue in question must have other perspectives and they must be discovered in order

7:23 to also discover alternatives that had not been considered before. Or that the person who is exposing us had not considered them and that they are important. The fourth strategy, which I think is fundamental, assesses the consequences of the proposed variables. Sometimes both variables are negative and bring negative consequences to your life and then you don' t have to assume them, you don' t have to accept them. You have to know what the consequences are. I always say that when you' re surprised at the consequences is that you didn' t do a good analysis, you didn' t do a good study, so you need to be able to see where it' s going to take you. That' s because when you see the consequences, you can have more clarity about what to do, how to act, what decision to make.

8:24 There' s four strategies to deal with the fake diles. I insist it is very common to fall into false dilemmas. It' s not that you' re not smart, it' s not that you' re not wise, it' s not that you' re not prepared. It is not common because we tend to simplify everything, not only by the scientific method, but because it is the easiest thing to understand and to be able to analyze it. Worse is when we live with manipulative people who are deliberately trying to get us into false dilemmas. To me, the spiritual dimension has helped me a lot to understand that there are always new options. My connection, with my essence, my transcending my relationship with God has helped me to know that there is always a possibility that I have not seen. I love it because in the Book of Revelation, in chapter twenty- one, verse five, God says makes all things new. And that excites me because that makes me know that there' s always a new possibility, a better chance.

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