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Bomb. Why the affective relationships I
have are not stable. I like assertiveness,

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because it invites us to prudence that
what should motivate our word is always

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love you are and that is already
the basis to go out to conquer many

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goals, to fight, to give
a better version and enjoy life fully.

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You know, we need self-
motivation. I believe that we cannot let

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motivation always come from outside, because
that makes us dependent and in some way

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predictable. You and I have to
work on self- motivating, that is,

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generating existential strategies that allow us,
finding sources of joy, of encouragement,

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of strength, finding experiences values that
drive us to live constantly, coherently

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in search of the purposes of life
that we have. That' s why

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I always live to find reflections that
help me understand how I can self-

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motivate if it' s not difficult. These days I found four keys that

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seem fundamental to me. The first
one has to connect with you why,

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that is, you have to be
clear about what your goal is, what

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has to be concise, what has
to be measurable so that you can know

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if you' re reaching it or
not. What has to be realistic.

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You can' t embark on unreal
dreams that end up being chimeras. Now

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it has to be relevant, because
it has to be connected to your pursuit

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of happiness and eye, it has
to have well- concrete periods of time.

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So the first thing is that connects
with you why, that is,

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what your goal is and makes clear
what the benefit is, what the impact

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that realized goal is going to have
on your life. Because when you focus

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on that goal and you focus on
the benefits, on the advantages, on

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the impact that it will bring to
your existence, you will feel moved to

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give the best of yourself to achieve
that goal, to achieve what you propose.

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Many times you' re demotivating because
you don' t know what you

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want or you just haven' t
shown the advantages, the benefits that that

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goal brings to your life, so
you end up swimming anywhere without knowing what

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port you want to reach. That' s the first thing to connect with

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you why is it born of the
purpose and benefits that purpose brings? Second,

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it is important that you are surrounded
by positive people. For you,

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I love Marianne Rojas' metaphor.
I broke up when he talks about people

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vitamins or, if you want,
what Bernardo says is tamateas, when he

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talks about nutritious people. I believe
in that. I believe that there are

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people who motivate only one with their
presence, only with their words, only

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with their behavior. And I also
know that there are people who are looking

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to discourage you because it' s
what' s inside you, because it

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' s the way you' ve
lived. So, please be someone who

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' s surrounded by positive people,
people who have a lot to contribute to

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you. I' m thinking about
friends, family, mentors who motivate you,

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who inspire you to find people who
share your interests, who share your

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goals, and then learn from them
and then you have clear paths that they

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have traveled and that have led to
success or that has made them happy.

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It' s really important to know
who we' re around. I remember

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my grandmother telling me who you'
re with and I' ll tell you

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who you are, because I tell
you today, tell me who you'

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re with and I' ll tell
you if there' s a chance that

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you' re moving or not.
If you live with those people who suck

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energy that toxicly invade us with fears, I assure you that you will not

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be able to be motivated, you
will not be able to have self-

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motivation. Third, it' s
important that you don' t give up

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on obstacles. Hey, setbacks are
part of the way. No one who

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has succeeded has made it overnight.
He did it with a snap of his

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fingers. Not everyone has had to
overcome difficulties, overcome problems, beat complex

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situations. These days I was watching
the story of the author of Harry Potter.

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I think that' s a wonderful
story. JK' s. Rowley.

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You remember he looked twelve times,
twelve times he was rejected by his

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texts and had a difficult life.
Remember, she' s a single mother.

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Remember that I wrote in cafes.
Remember that he lived on state aid,

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but he was clear what he wanted
and he went ahead. Then setbacks

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are part of the way. Learn
from your mistakes. Keep going with perseverance.

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Don' t give yourself up easily, don' t forget that every

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step you take gets you closer to
your goal, then you' re self

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- motivated to know what' s
going to be messy, what' s

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going to be trouble, what'
s going to happen, that there'

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s going to be adverse situations.
No one has the road to success,

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the road to achieving their paved goals
without problems. Everyone has to go through

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difficult and complex situations. Now it
is important that when you overcome an obstacle,

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you reward yourself, recognize your effort, celebrate your success. I think

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the author rewards have a lot of
value and drive you. They don'

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t stop falling, they don'
t let him declare himself defeated. And

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the fourth thing I find to be
self- motivated, goes through spiritual experience.

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In my case, or a religious
experience, a Christian, Catholic experience,

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but I don' t know what
yours is. But try to connect

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with God, try to connect with
the absolute, try to get out of

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your fears, try to see beyond
the limits of your life. Find out

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that it' s worth being happy, that it' s worth the fight,

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that it' s worth the dreams. Today I want to propose those

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four keys, those four attitudes,
to keep you self- motivated, self

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- motivated. And I want to
look you in the eye and tell you

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that you listen to these reflections every
week. Every time an episode comes up,

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I want to tell you you'
re capable. You are capable,

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valuable, valuable, You may not
forget, that you have how to do

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it and how to do it.
Today is the montivo, Today is the

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reason to be alive and have people
who love one, who trust one and

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believe in one. Don' t
forget. Self- motivation is an ongoing

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process. Don' t be discouraged
if there are days when you lack motivation.

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The important thing is that you get
up and try again. Come on,

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come on you can, come on
you' re capable and you'

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re gonna make it. I would
invite you to review these keys and try

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to land them in your daily life, in your daily life, don'

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t forget the orational. The man
is alive He hears. It is a

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powerful tool in spiritual growth. I
hope you get it, read it and

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tell me in the comments and give
me ideas to move on. We'

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re on every platform. You know
boom bu