Beneficios de ser educado

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Why the affective relationships I have are
not stable. I like assertiveness because it

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invites us to prudence that what should
motivate our word is always love is You

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and that is already the basis to
go out to conquer many goals, to

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fight, to give a better version
and enjoy life fully. You know,

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sometimes we get the impression that being
educated, being respectful isn' t right.

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We have become accustomed to rudeness,
impertinence, the recklessness of many people

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and perhaps have been tempted to behave
in the same way to act without kindness,

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without respect, without education. I
want to remind you that being educated

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generates benefits, not only inner benefits, but in the bonds, in the

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relationships that we establish. When you
and I are educated, respectful of others

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and standards, we are able to
create a more harmonious environment, a more

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pleasant environment for all. Yes,
when we conform to the rules, to

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respect others, we generate very positive
interactions, less conflictive. And that benefits

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us all, because a good social
climate is generated, a social climate in

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which the emotions of well- being
can occur, as well as that we

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achieve that coexistence is pleasant. After
all, that is the raison d'

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être of being with others. But
also when we are educated, respectful,

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we foster trust in collaboration, because
both education and respect create an environment of

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trust as soon as we can know
what to expect from the other yes,

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when you know that the other person
is respectful, that the other person is

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always aware of compliance with social norms, of respecting your dignity, you know

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what to have with that person.
That makes there is a greater possibility of

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collaboration and that teamwork, in any
of the relationships, is more effective.

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That leads you to achieve the goals
you have set yourself, to achieve the

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conquests you are fighting for and fighting
for, to greater education, to greater

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respect, greater trust, greater collaboration. But, eye, security and order

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are also promoted. I know that
we live in a society in which order

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is despised. And order is despised
because it is believed that this imposition,

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which is castration, which is repression, and not social norms allow us all

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to feel confident as soon as they
are done so that each one can be

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realized from his uniqueness and can sustain
relations of collaboration and complementarity with us.

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But even more, we don'
t have to live in chaos. We

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don' t have to live in
anarchy. We don' t have to

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make our living space a messy space
where no one knows what to stick to,

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and no one knows what they'
re looking for or want to build.

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Disorder puts us all under threat.
Disorder gives us all that sense that

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we are going to be destroyed quickly. That is why we need to be

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educated and respectful in order to achieve
more just and equitable social development as well.

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Education and respect for standards help to
ensure that every person in society can

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have the same opportunities and be treated
fairly. Listen, this is fundamental for

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a society to develop, this is
fundamental for individuals in a society to achieve

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the goals that have been set and
for society itself to be more just,

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more equitable for all. Nothing more
unjust, nothing more inequitable than a chaotic

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society, than an anarchic society,
than a society in which no one knows

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what to stick to or what to
build. Now I share with you that

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every day I try to be educated
and that every day I try to respect

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social norms. It doesn' t
matter if the others don' t respect

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them. It doesn' t matter
if other people assault me or say things

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that aren' t really true.
My choice of life is for respect and

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it' s for education, and
that' s what has caused me as

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a person. First, it has
caused me to have better interpersonal ties.

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Somehow, when one behaves well with
the other, the other gives the best

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of himself. When one shows price
for the other, the other responds with

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consideration and kindness. It has to
be someone sick to respond with your good

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attitude to your good attitude with violence. To me, making an effort to

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be polite and respectful has helped me
to have better interpersonal relationships. It has

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also helped me to grow in my
self- esteem because I feel good about

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myself. I feel that what I
do is aligned with my values and that

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increases self- love. That gives
me more confidence to continue succeeding, to

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continue acting fearlessly, with the certainty
that everything will be fine. But look,

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as well as socially, education helps
to ensure that there is order and,

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in that way already greater production,
also internally, to the extent that

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one has better organized one' s
life, because it respects the usual dikes

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of society, because it respects the
limits that we have set, it has

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the possibility to better achieve its own
objectives, because then it knows what it

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has and what are the obstacles that
it has. And I' ve been

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helped to reduce the stress, the
stress caused by the disorder. I,

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particularly, the most mine space I
have is my study, in which are

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all my books, in which are
the spaces through which I identify myself,

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because there is an order that makes
me find things quickly, that makes me

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have less stress, less anxiety.
Hey. In short, I would like

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to invite you to be an educated
person, to be a respectful person,

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to be clear about the rules and
to know that they benefit you, that

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they allow you to become a person
and generate social, growth, and development

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relationships. Do not be dragged by
those anarchic ideas, by those ideas that

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seek to make disorder the engine of
life, because there are certainly entropic spaces,

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that is, disorders with possibilities of
creation, but most are spaces of

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destruction, in which we are not
happier, in which we cannot realize ourselves.

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I' d like you to set
up there by hand, what are

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the benefits that, as a person, you get from being someone educated.

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After all, one way to motivate
oneself is to explain the achievements that are

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made with that kind of attitude,
with that kind of action. Thank you

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for being there and for sharing this
small reflection with me. I hope that

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it moves you, that it generates
questions and that it helps you to be

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happier, because that is the task
of this podcast, to generate conditions in

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you, from questions, from concerns, so that you have a better context

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and in which you can realize yourself. Thank you and we keep meeting on

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each of the platforms you know