March 14, 2024
Benditos problemas
Las dificultades, y algunas situaciones, nos permiten salir de nuestra zona de confort. A veces nos volvemos expertos en complicar la vida misma, pero hoy te quiero decir que la vida tiene sus afanes y esa es su condición.
Las dificultades, y algunas situaciones, nos permiten salir de nuestra zona de confort. A veces nos volvemos expertos en complicar la vida misma, pero hoy te quiero decir que la vida tiene sus afanes y esa es su condición.
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Why the affective relationships I have are
not stable. I like assertiveness because it
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invites us to prudence that what should
motivate our word is always love is You
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and that is already the basis to
go out to conquer many goals, to
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fight, to give a better version
and enjoy life fully. You know blessed
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difficulties, blessed ones, problems,
blessed situations that make us leave our comfort
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zone, that make us train new
skills, that allow us to develop new
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patterns of thought and behavior. Thanks
to these situations, we are better human
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beings. I know that we rarely
stop to reflect on our task in the
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00:01:08.799 --> 00:01:18.159
face of the difficulties we face daily
sometimes we become experts in complicating life itself.
10
00:01:19.879 --> 00:01:29.760
We are a source of distortions,
exaggerations, anxieties, tensions in the
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face of life and we make a
problem the worst, misfortune, end up
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being a thief of strength and encouragement. To continue, today I have to
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tell you that life has its cares, that that is its condition, that
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that is its reality and that,
by or by c h o r ns
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you, despair you, distress you, feel the worst. Life is not
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going to stop having difficulties even more. If life stopped having difficulties, it
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would be boring, since we could
not exercise ourselves in the possibility, in
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the ability to solve the adverse situations
that arise. I' m not saying
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that problems make life any more fun
That would be a waste of purpose.
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What I want to convey is that
each of us can go beyond the problem
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itself, that is, the difficulties
are presented to us as challenges, as
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challenges to solve. And the task, instead of despairing and letting go of
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control of life and believing that everything
is lost, is to solve them,
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is to find solutions. How we
do it. I believe that the first
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thing is to keep calm and not
to fall into the despair that sometimes situations
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lead us to, to begin to
occupy yourself, to think of solutions,
27
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to generate emotions, to provoke that
state that approaches you to the solution.
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In this, your maturity, your
experience plays an important role, as you
29
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will have to choose the most successful
way to reach a satisfactory solution. Yes,
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do not despair and turn to history
and resort to what you have learned
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and resort to previous experiences that have
given you maturity and that have made you
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an experienced person. You have to
think you' re not the only human
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with difficulties. Yeah, we'
re all having a hard time. Neither
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yours is the biggest, nor yours
is a misdeed, nor is it all
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over. It is not a difficulty
of the many that all humans have.
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And I' m not telling you
that to get into conformism. Not me.
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I don' t believe in that
expression that curses a lot of solace
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from fools. Not me. What
I want is for you to be clear
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that you' re not special because
of that problem. We all have difficult
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situations and the first principle to resolve
difficulties is to recognize that they must be
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addressed and resolved. This episode seeks
to promote a change of attitude in you
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in the face of everyday problems.
I know that our last word on how
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to address the different difficulties, but
I want it to be a starting point
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for you to reflect and try to
act with restraint without letting yourself be carried
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away by the eagerness for despair.
Hey, you can, you' re
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capable, you have tools, skills
to achieve it, you have to believe
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it, you have to know it. Now. Often the difficulties do not
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belong to us, but they affect
us. And then we have to keep
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in mind that we are external actors, that we come in to collaborate to
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solve it, because it is not
our direct problem, because it is not
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in our hands to make a decision
and say good look. That' s
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how they work out, so I
do this. Then we don' t
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get into the situation, generate more
problems, cause more anguish, generate more
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tension, we don' t go
into forming equipment to solve. That is
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why we have to be proactive,
not accusers. That' s why we
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have to be people who do,
not people who point. That' s
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why we have to be open people, not reckless stubborns who seek to prosecute.
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It' s not your problem directly
It' s affecting you. Then
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you have to be part of the
solution and that is fundamental in life.
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If we are not clear about these
points that I have raised with you,
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we are likely to act wrongly and
fall into a state of despair, considering
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that there is no possible solution.
However, I want to remind you that
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you have been through difficulties and have
overcome them, that you have faced great
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knots and have unleashed them that you
are expert, expert in finding solutions.
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Then focus on your skills, focus
on your abilities, those that you need
66
00:07:30.240 --> 00:07:36.759
to face and solve the situation that
is being given an element that particularly helps
67
00:07:36.959 --> 00:07:45.879
me personally, and that I have
a temperament sometimes marked by despair that I
68
00:07:45.879 --> 00:07:54.480
want to find solutions very soon.
It is spiritual experience, my faith in
69
00:07:54.519 --> 00:08:01.920
God. That really helped me.
My experience of transcending, of going beyond
70
00:08:01.959 --> 00:08:07.680
the immediate, allows me to believe
in myself, allows me to find abilities
71
00:08:07.920 --> 00:08:13.360
and, above all, allows me
to have a heart full of hope to
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make the decisions and take the necessary
steps. In the religious experience I have
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you know that I am Catholic.
I believe that God is with us and
74
00:08:26.240 --> 00:08:30.360
has endowed us with what is necessary
to move forward and be happy. That
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00:08:30.399 --> 00:08:35.600
is, the spiritual dimension makes me
believe that I exist to realize myself,
76
00:08:37.080 --> 00:08:43.320
to live in fullness, to achieve
a definitive life. So, today I
77
00:08:43.960 --> 00:08:48.080
want to invite you not to lose
your way, not to make decisions from
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00:08:48.440 --> 00:08:54.480
anguish and despair, since every decision, every action, has consequences and if
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00:08:54.480 --> 00:09:01.840
they are not well measures, you
will suffer, you will suffer. Today
80
00:09:03.240 --> 00:09:07.879
I invite you to trust yourself,
I invite you to believe that you can
81
00:09:07.879 --> 00:09:15.840
build, walk a path of happiness. I hope that this episode will achieve
82
00:09:15.840 --> 00:09:20.799
its objective, which is to generate
concerns about the way, around the attitude
83
00:09:20.840 --> 00:09:28.000
with which you face the daily problems. Thank you for being there and thank
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you for listening to this episode and, if you want to share it with
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00:09:31.799 --> 00:09:35.159
someone, send it to them.
We' re in Spotify, our channel,
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00:09:35.440 --> 00:09:39.679
we' re in Dezer, we' re in Apple, we'
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00:09:39.679 --> 00:09:50.639
re in Amazon. You know boom
bu
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Why the affective relationships I have are
not stable. I like assertiveness because it
2
00:00:09.480 --> 00:00:14.720
invites us to prudence that what should
motivate our word is always love is You
3
00:00:14.759 --> 00:00:22.839
and that is already the basis to
go out to conquer many goals, to
4
00:00:22.839 --> 00:00:36.799
fight, to give a better version
and enjoy life fully. You know blessed
5
00:00:36.799 --> 00:00:44.079
difficulties, blessed ones, problems,
blessed situations that make us leave our comfort
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00:00:44.200 --> 00:00:52.200
zone, that make us train new
skills, that allow us to develop new
7
00:00:52.240 --> 00:01:00.000
patterns of thought and behavior. Thanks
to these situations, we are better human
8
00:01:00.079 --> 00:01:08.760
beings. I know that we rarely
stop to reflect on our task in the
9
00:01:08.799 --> 00:01:18.159
face of the difficulties we face daily
sometimes we become experts in complicating life itself.
10
00:01:19.879 --> 00:01:29.760
We are a source of distortions,
exaggerations, anxieties, tensions in the
11
00:01:29.879 --> 00:01:37.640
face of life and we make a
problem the worst, misfortune, end up
12
00:01:38.439 --> 00:01:46.680
being a thief of strength and encouragement. To continue, today I have to
13
00:01:46.760 --> 00:01:53.760
tell you that life has its cares, that that is its condition, that
14
00:01:55.000 --> 00:02:00.000
that is its reality and that,
by or by c h o r ns
15
00:02:00.120 --> 00:02:04.959
you, despair you, distress you, feel the worst. Life is not
16
00:02:05.079 --> 00:02:12.000
going to stop having difficulties even more. If life stopped having difficulties, it
17
00:02:12.000 --> 00:02:19.960
would be boring, since we could
not exercise ourselves in the possibility, in
18
00:02:20.159 --> 00:02:28.080
the ability to solve the adverse situations
that arise. I' m not saying
19
00:02:28.199 --> 00:02:31.199
that problems make life any more fun
That would be a waste of purpose.
20
00:02:32.319 --> 00:02:38.280
What I want to convey is that
each of us can go beyond the problem
21
00:02:38.439 --> 00:02:45.120
itself, that is, the difficulties
are presented to us as challenges, as
22
00:02:45.199 --> 00:02:52.000
challenges to solve. And the task, instead of despairing and letting go of
23
00:02:52.120 --> 00:02:58.719
control of life and believing that everything
is lost, is to solve them,
24
00:03:00.599 --> 00:03:06.439
is to find solutions. How we
do it. I believe that the first
25
00:03:07.240 --> 00:03:12.680
thing is to keep calm and not
to fall into the despair that sometimes situations
26
00:03:12.759 --> 00:03:19.719
lead us to, to begin to
occupy yourself, to think of solutions,
27
00:03:20.240 --> 00:03:24.240
to generate emotions, to provoke that
state that approaches you to the solution.
28
00:03:27.080 --> 00:03:32.400
In this, your maturity, your
experience plays an important role, as you
29
00:03:32.520 --> 00:03:39.280
will have to choose the most successful
way to reach a satisfactory solution. Yes,
30
00:03:39.879 --> 00:03:46.680
do not despair and turn to history
and resort to what you have learned
31
00:03:46.719 --> 00:03:53.280
and resort to previous experiences that have
given you maturity and that have made you
32
00:03:53.319 --> 00:04:02.319
an experienced person. You have to
think you' re not the only human
33
00:04:02.319 --> 00:04:08.840
with difficulties. Yeah, we'
re all having a hard time. Neither
34
00:04:08.879 --> 00:04:13.400
yours is the biggest, nor yours
is a misdeed, nor is it all
35
00:04:13.520 --> 00:04:19.279
over. It is not a difficulty
of the many that all humans have.
36
00:04:19.360 --> 00:04:25.720
And I' m not telling you
that to get into conformism. Not me.
37
00:04:25.800 --> 00:04:29.240
I don' t believe in that
expression that curses a lot of solace
38
00:04:29.240 --> 00:04:33.839
from fools. Not me. What
I want is for you to be clear
39
00:04:34.079 --> 00:04:39.000
that you' re not special because
of that problem. We all have difficult
40
00:04:39.720 --> 00:04:46.680
situations and the first principle to resolve
difficulties is to recognize that they must be
41
00:04:46.720 --> 00:04:54.759
addressed and resolved. This episode seeks
to promote a change of attitude in you
42
00:04:54.800 --> 00:04:59.279
in the face of everyday problems.
I know that our last word on how
43
00:04:59.279 --> 00:05:04.240
to address the different difficulties, but
I want it to be a starting point
44
00:05:04.319 --> 00:05:12.360
for you to reflect and try to
act with restraint without letting yourself be carried
45
00:05:12.439 --> 00:05:17.360
away by the eagerness for despair.
Hey, you can, you' re
46
00:05:17.360 --> 00:05:26.839
capable, you have tools, skills
to achieve it, you have to believe
47
00:05:27.000 --> 00:05:32.279
it, you have to know it. Now. Often the difficulties do not
48
00:05:32.279 --> 00:05:39.560
belong to us, but they affect
us. And then we have to keep
49
00:05:39.839 --> 00:05:45.879
in mind that we are external actors, that we come in to collaborate to
50
00:05:45.920 --> 00:05:49.040
solve it, because it is not
our direct problem, because it is not
51
00:05:49.079 --> 00:05:50.560
in our hands to make a decision
and say good look. That' s
52
00:05:50.560 --> 00:05:56.839
how they work out, so I
do this. Then we don' t
53
00:05:56.920 --> 00:06:02.040
get into the situation, generate more
problems, cause more anguish, generate more
54
00:06:02.120 --> 00:06:09.519
tension, we don' t go
into forming equipment to solve. That is
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00:06:09.639 --> 00:06:15.160
why we have to be proactive,
not accusers. That' s why we
56
00:06:15.279 --> 00:06:20.360
have to be people who do,
not people who point. That' s
57
00:06:20.399 --> 00:06:30.319
why we have to be open people, not reckless stubborns who seek to prosecute.
58
00:06:30.839 --> 00:06:34.519
It' s not your problem directly
It' s affecting you. Then
59
00:06:34.680 --> 00:06:42.560
you have to be part of the
solution and that is fundamental in life.
60
00:06:44.439 --> 00:06:49.360
If we are not clear about these
points that I have raised with you,
61
00:06:50.120 --> 00:06:58.000
we are likely to act wrongly and
fall into a state of despair, considering
62
00:06:58.040 --> 00:07:03.680
that there is no possible solution.
However, I want to remind you that
63
00:07:04.199 --> 00:07:11.040
you have been through difficulties and have
overcome them, that you have faced great
64
00:07:11.160 --> 00:07:18.720
knots and have unleashed them that you
are expert, expert in finding solutions.
65
00:07:21.879 --> 00:07:30.199
Then focus on your skills, focus
on your abilities, those that you need
66
00:07:30.240 --> 00:07:36.759
to face and solve the situation that
is being given an element that particularly helps
67
00:07:36.959 --> 00:07:45.879
me personally, and that I have
a temperament sometimes marked by despair that I
68
00:07:45.879 --> 00:07:54.480
want to find solutions very soon.
It is spiritual experience, my faith in
69
00:07:54.519 --> 00:08:01.920
God. That really helped me.
My experience of transcending, of going beyond
70
00:08:01.959 --> 00:08:07.680
the immediate, allows me to believe
in myself, allows me to find abilities
71
00:08:07.920 --> 00:08:13.360
and, above all, allows me
to have a heart full of hope to
72
00:08:13.839 --> 00:08:20.199
make the decisions and take the necessary
steps. In the religious experience I have
73
00:08:20.639 --> 00:08:26.199
you know that I am Catholic.
I believe that God is with us and
74
00:08:26.240 --> 00:08:30.360
has endowed us with what is necessary
to move forward and be happy. That
75
00:08:30.399 --> 00:08:35.600
is, the spiritual dimension makes me
believe that I exist to realize myself,
76
00:08:37.080 --> 00:08:43.320
to live in fullness, to achieve
a definitive life. So, today I
77
00:08:43.960 --> 00:08:48.080
want to invite you not to lose
your way, not to make decisions from
78
00:08:48.440 --> 00:08:54.480
anguish and despair, since every decision, every action, has consequences and if
79
00:08:54.480 --> 00:09:01.840
they are not well measures, you
will suffer, you will suffer. Today
80
00:09:03.240 --> 00:09:07.879
I invite you to trust yourself,
I invite you to believe that you can
81
00:09:07.879 --> 00:09:15.840
build, walk a path of happiness. I hope that this episode will achieve
82
00:09:15.840 --> 00:09:20.799
its objective, which is to generate
concerns about the way, around the attitude
83
00:09:20.840 --> 00:09:28.000
with which you face the daily problems. Thank you for being there and thank
84
00:09:28.080 --> 00:09:31.799
you for listening to this episode and, if you want to share it with
85
00:09:31.799 --> 00:09:35.159
someone, send it to them.
We' re in Spotify, our channel,
86
00:09:35.440 --> 00:09:39.679
we' re in Dezer, we' re in Apple, we'
87
00:09:39.679 --> 00:09:50.639
re in Amazon. You know boom
bu
