Benditos problemas

0:00 Why the affective relationships I have are not stable. I like assertiveness because it invites us to prudence that what should motivate our word is always love is You and that is already the basis to go out to conquer many goals, to fight, to give a better version and enjoy life fully. You know blessed difficulties, blessed ones, problems, blessed situations that make us leave our comfort zone, that make us train new skills, that allow us to develop new patterns of thought and behavior. Thanks to these situations, we are better human beings. I know that we rarely stop to reflect on our task in the face of the difficulties we face daily sometimes we become experts in complicating life itself.

1:19 We are a source of distortions, exaggerations, anxieties, tensions in the face of life and we make a problem the worst, misfortune, end up being a thief of strength and encouragement. To continue, today I have to tell you that life has its cares, that that is its condition, that that is its reality and that, by or by c h o r ns you, despair you, distress you, feel the worst. Life is not going to stop having difficulties even more. If life stopped having difficulties, it would be boring, since we could not exercise ourselves in the possibility, in the ability to solve the adverse situations that arise. I' m not saying that problems make life any more fun That would be a waste of purpose.

2:32 What I want to convey is that each of us can go beyond the problem itself, that is, the difficulties are presented to us as challenges, as challenges to solve. And the task, instead of despairing and letting go of control of life and believing that everything is lost, is to solve them, is to find solutions. How we do it. I believe that the first thing is to keep calm and not to fall into the despair that sometimes situations lead us to, to begin to occupy yourself, to think of solutions, to generate emotions, to provoke that state that approaches you to the solution.

3:27 In this, your maturity, your experience plays an important role, as you will have to choose the most successful way to reach a satisfactory solution. Yes, do not despair and turn to history and resort to what you have learned and resort to previous experiences that have given you maturity and that have made you an experienced person. You have to think you' re not the only human with difficulties. Yeah, we' re all having a hard time. Neither yours is the biggest, nor yours is a misdeed, nor is it all over. It is not a difficulty of the many that all humans have.

4:19 And I' m not telling you that to get into conformism. Not me. I don' t believe in that expression that curses a lot of solace from fools. Not me. What I want is for you to be clear that you' re not special because of that problem. We all have difficult situations and the first principle to resolve difficulties is to recognize that they must be addressed and resolved. This episode seeks to promote a change of attitude in you in the face of everyday problems. I know that our last word on how to address the different difficulties, but I want it to be a starting point for you to reflect and try to act with restraint without letting yourself be carried away by the eagerness for despair. Hey, you can, you' re capable, you have tools, skills to achieve it, you have to believe it, you have to know it. Now. Often the difficulties do not belong to us, but they affect us. And then we have to keep in mind that we are external actors, that we come in to collaborate to solve it, because it is not our direct problem, because it is not in our hands to make a decision and say good look. That' s

5:50 how they work out, so I do this. Then we don' t get into the situation, generate more problems, cause more anguish, generate more tension, we don' t go into forming equipment to solve. That is why we have to be proactive, not accusers. That' s why we have to be people who do, not people who point. That' s why we have to be open people, not reckless stubborns who seek to prosecute.

6:30 It' s not your problem directly It' s affecting you. Then you have to be part of the solution and that is fundamental in life. If we are not clear about these points that I have raised with you, we are likely to act wrongly and fall into a state of despair, considering that there is no possible solution. However, I want to remind you that you have been through difficulties and have overcome them, that you have faced great knots and have unleashed them that you are expert, expert in finding solutions.

7:21 Then focus on your skills, focus on your abilities, those that you need to face and solve the situation that is being given an element that particularly helps me personally, and that I have a temperament sometimes marked by despair that I want to find solutions very soon. It is spiritual experience, my faith in God. That really helped me. My experience of transcending, of going beyond the immediate, allows me to believe in myself, allows me to find abilities and, above all, allows me to have a heart full of hope to make the decisions and take the necessary steps. In the religious experience I have you know that I am Catholic. I believe that God is with us and has endowed us with what is necessary to move forward and be happy. That is, the spiritual dimension makes me believe that I exist to realize myself, to live in fullness, to achieve a definitive life. So, today I want to invite you not to lose your way, not to make decisions from anguish and despair, since every decision, every action, has consequences and if

8:54 they are not well measures, you will suffer, you will suffer. Today I invite you to trust yourself, I invite you to believe that you can build, walk a path of happiness. I hope that this episode will achieve its objective, which is to generate concerns about the way, around the attitude with which you face the daily problems. Thank you for being there and thank you for listening to this episode and, if you want to share it with someone, send it to them. We' re in Spotify, our channel, we' re in Dezer, we' re in Apple, we' re in Amazon. You know boom bu